Girls do not first attracted to boys bcoz they do not no any thing that the boys have..
2007-07-19 21:52:29
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answered by Anonymous
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I think I understand you man. You're wondering how a guy can attract a woman through his personality rather than looks or other such superficial things. There are plenty of ways to answer this in a sappy way, but I prefer the rationalist approach. For instance, women will find interest in men who are willing to invest a great deal of time in them. It's an evolutionary mechanism that ensures that they and their offspring are well taken care of; and typically they will use their sexuality in exchange for that attention.
Women are basically trying to balance obtaining the highest quality mate they can (the most attractive, wealthiest, etc.) with obtaining a mate who will invest time and effort into their well-being. This is why you see some really ugly dudes with some really hot girls. Because most males who know they're attractive will typically try to mate with the highest quantity of females they possibly can, obviously slacking in the investment area. This opening leaves other men with the capability of attracting a female by offering his time, effort, money, and attention.
A male cannot simply give his time to a girl, he has to do it confidently, and securely. That's what personality really is to a woman, whether they say that admittedly or not. Hope this helps.
Craig
2007-07-20 05:08:17
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answered by Craig A 2
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Some guys are good looking, but are stupid and immature. Other guys are avergage but they have cool personalities, they like different things, they listen, they dress nicely, etc. SO we don't like JUST personalities, but they help A LOT especially if the guy isn't too cute! LOL
2007-07-20 04:52:01
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answered by Anonymous
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most girls r attracted by personality at least i know i am
2007-07-20 04:48:26
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answered by luvin_me_4_me 5
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Because of the grammar, I don't understand your question.
2007-07-20 04:46:53
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answered by shirleykins 7
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