2007-07-19 17:20:43 · 13 answers · asked by TRACER ™ 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I have to come out of the hetero closet: I was married once. I hope you won't all hate me now. (I have 3 great kids, btw.)
2007-07-19 22:16:59 · answer #1 · answered by inactive account 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've already explored the Unknown with the Opposite sex, so now the Unknown is the Known, and the fact that sex with guys sucks is Known also!
2007-07-20 01:41:53 · answer #2 · answered by indrep33 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
space exploration aside... I'll ask you this question, is their anyone who hasn't wanted to "explore the unknown" with the opposite sex? I have definately wanted to in the past, and hope to in the future. Exploring is ok, but make sure and set your limits. Don't let things go too far too fast, or you may end up getting yourself hurt or hurting someone else (hopefully only emotionally, though maybe physically also depending on what kind of things you were thinking about exploring). Also I'd say that if you're not married, don't have sex with your fellow explorer. It has always been my experience that pre-marital sex leads to difficult decisions for everyone involved and a great deal of emotional damage. Hope this helps.
God Bless,
Chake-Ri Shcos
2007-07-20 00:32:27 · answer #3 · answered by Chake-Ri Shcos 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
"Space, the final frontier... these are the voyages of the starship Enterthighs. Captain's log, Stardate 8927.7.2.3.8654.9.23.j. We've fallen out of warp prematurely into the Areolan galaxy, and a strange malady seems to have overcome my Vulvan science officer. We've been attempting to contact various bases detected by sensors, but so far have received no acknowledgment at either the first or second base. We're on our way to third base now. Hopefully, we'll get lucky...."
Seriously... no. No, I really haven't. That's not to say I haven't ever actually done the deed with a woman, but it was in one of those heavily resigned "well, everyone keeps saying this is what guys are supposed to do, so I guess I have to do it" ways.
I found a girl I thought was reasonably attractive, we went out, one thing unfortunately led to the other, and eventually we ended up in bed at her place, and I've got to tell you, it felt so wrong it made me want to cry.
She smelled wrong, she tasted wrong, even when I kissed her, her body looked awkward and unappealing, her body felt completely wrong, and as for intercourse itself... it was the single most boring thing I've done since that stint in eighth grade science where I started beating my head on my desk to distract from the pain of an excruciatingly detailed lecture on the mating practices of echinoderms.
After trying to go out with four or five girls and having it end up that way every time, I began seriously contemplating becoming a priest, just because it would give me an excuse to not ever try and have sex with women ever again (little did I know how common THAT thought would turn out to be).
The only good thing which came out of that whole period of my life was that I can now say "been there, done that" to all the people who think I'm gay because I've just never been with a girl, and can state categorically that gay men aren't gay because they just can't get it up with a woman.
It isn't so much that I can't accomplish the act. It's just that I know there are so many other things I could be doing to keep myself busy, like smashing my hand in a car door.
2007-07-20 01:26:20 · answer #4 · answered by AndiGravity 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes ever since I stopped some 26 or so years ago it has become an obsession-but then I got on here and realized it probably will never come again. Ohh youre talking about the opposite sex,... well sometimes I suppose probably in a similar yet not so intense way as above its been lets see since 1993 with a bi babe.
2007-07-20 01:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by boutgivup 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I want to explore the unknown with everyone.
2007-07-20 00:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
But Cathay does not lie beyond the Pillars of Hercules, everyone knows that now! And I don't know any nice guys who aren't gay and have boats, and even if there are any really nice guys who aren't gay, I'm not exactly what they have in mind when they think of girls anyway.
So I get to explore the unknown by myself! :-)
2007-07-20 00:31:54 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like Indiana Jones, I've already explored the "Temple Of Doom" a couple of times, and that's why I am 100% sure today that I am gay. Thanks, but no thanks. And no offense meant to the "fairer sex." You're wonderful people, most of you, and some of you are even beautiful, both inside and out. But I've been with my huzbear for eleven years, and I think I'll keep him.
2007-07-20 00:27:22 · answer #8 · answered by dreamchaser8860 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, I had a straight sex dream once. Her boobs were flying everywhere. And when I woke up my mouth was all dry and gross. So to answer your question...No, since I was dreaming that dream against my will.
2007-07-20 10:52:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
But most women aren't into spelunking, and many have seen "The Descent", so that is OFF the agenda.
2007-07-20 00:30:00 · answer #10 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋