Cultures & Groups - 21 October 2006

A few months ago I gave up bveing a lesbian because i started to like boys. should I go back if a lesbian likes me?

2006-10-21 04:34:21 · 13 answers · asked by kori b 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

My ancestors got booted out of Scotland to make room for sheep, and I'm not pissed at anybody. I say that the past is the past, we all have legitimate gripes, now shut the **** up and get back to work.

2006-10-21 04:31:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

everyone with pierced nipples-does it enhance your sensitivity?
men-do women's peirced nipples turn you on?

2006-10-21 04:15:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

im going the week before xmas and im going to a place called brugge.its 300 pound sterling for 3 nights.so any comments would be usefull,im going with my girlfriend

2006-10-21 04:13:24 · 14 answers · asked by lisasbarred 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

when you got married, did you decide who to take the last names? or do you just stick with your family names?

2006-10-21 04:07:55 · 4 answers · asked by mystic_lonewolf22 5 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

seems like this applies in the black community in America as well . black women are big and the men love it too. they even like fat white girls.


are there "fattening houses" in America where black people just sit in their homes to gain weight so they can attract their black men?

2006-10-21 03:51:39 · 11 answers · asked by leavemethefreakalone 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

The churches say it will. Will heteros suddenly get divercedd an marry same sex? Will it happen gradually? Will the government start insisting everyone has a same sex partner? How do the churches back up this statement that denys people the right to be together?

2006-10-21 03:43:01 · 27 answers · asked by nursesr4evr 7 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

as in there being different reasons for homosexuality,,with no one reason in the greater majority,,,please explian your beleif and if you want tell me your curreent sexual preference,,and the history behind it,,,,,i'm heterosexual,,,I just curious as to what people will say here

2006-10-21 03:39:33 · 23 answers · asked by betty 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

why is it that by asking a simple question on here all the religious folk on here feel the need to jump on there soap boxes????? oh and before you all start to attack me i love everyone!!!

2006-10-21 03:37:57 · 18 answers · asked by LISA-MARIE 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

I am healthy but not physically perfect. Nothing that can not be fixed. I started taking good care of myself in my early twenty's hoping to find that girl of my dreams but now find myself alone and with no family of my own. I do not drink or smoke anymore and have not for a long time. I was working out regularly and turning heads till I went to Iraq and was exposed to GOD knows what, (Depleted uranium, chemical from 1980, and heavy food preservitives from MRE's)! Since my health has declined I lost my motivation to work out much anymore but still wonder, why some girls liked my looks and some do not? What are your thought's please!

2006-10-21 03:34:02 · 15 answers · asked by I made this! 3 in Other - Cultures & Groups

when we as a society have a problem accepting interracial dating/marriages?

2006-10-21 03:30:07 · 11 answers · asked by proud of it 4 in Other - Cultures & Groups

I am not sure if I am, but I want to know how other people have done it. I need info...Do bi's also 'come out' or do they hide mostly? If I am interested in girls, I am not attracted to the typical looks girls have, it's more the butch look/or at least short hair. I have long hair. Do most lesbian cut their hair to 'come out'? Do you have to dress any differently? I mean, I am aware of some young lesbians' garbs with piercings and all (which I find to an extent attractive). But I am not that brave!!! I think they're brave to be able to proclaim to the world they are. I come from a very conservative (no-forgiving) family who will NEVER understand if I ever did decide I want to pursue this discovery. I want to conform to society, yet I don't in a way (if it means not being true to myself). But all in all, I want to find a safe place where I can be myself and be safe, but not necessarily confined to a region. I just want to have the right balance in expressing this sexuality.

2006-10-21 03:25:24 · 10 answers · asked by summation 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-10-21 03:21:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

Am I the only one who has more to be concerned about in my life than a hostile and pointless fude between religions. In my opnion they....religions....should all be banned! they are the cause of so much hatred, though they all profess love and peace. Question.....should religion be banned from public places....like having sex....you just wouldnt do it on the bus!!!

2006-10-21 03:16:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

i'm a guy but the other night i went out as a girl for the first time. it was wonderful. for the first time i saw a guy i was really attracted to. i know i couldn't go out with him but the thought of it was wonderful. do ya think i might like guys.

2006-10-21 02:52:12 · 10 answers · asked by ashley 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

1. that you cant eat solid food for 2 weeks?
2. that your mouth is going to stink when you have the metal ring.. ?how can you prevent it from stinking besides washing your teeth?.
3. when do you really know it is infected and you need to take it off?

2006-10-21 02:25:49 · 10 answers · asked by Dr. Truth 3 in Other - Cultures & Groups

my ex partner is a pre op transsexual
something i have gotten used to
but we had a fight as people do
but i asked her did she truelly love me
and i did not get an answer
i asked her if she still has feelings for the girl
that broke her heart and she said yes
i packed my things and left
i knew i could not compete againt this girl in her heart
but i only wanted to get in side it and be loved a little bit
i don't think i can find any one that could replace her
and her understanding about me
i know she uses this site but i do not care
if she knows how i feel
i need to work out weather it is worth getting back with her
or what i should do to get over her
and move on and stop this hurt?
life seems to be standing still with out her
how do i make it start again

2006-10-21 02:23:21 · 10 answers · asked by eat it then die 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

My opinion and beliefs are from experience with dating men/boys. I keep thinking that no matter how good he may seem on the outside, when it comes down to it, he is an untrustworthy potential cheater. I believe men have a hard time controlling their sexual urge and even if they do,they feel hatred for women who dress provacatively (even though it's his darn fault he can't find peace within himself) and call them whores. I believe men fantasize about women in a violent way-wanting to violently have sex and act out aggression, which to me is vilely repulsive. I believe men are too brutes for any real sensitive enjoyment of people's company. They do not keen interest or passion about the arts, but will watch football and scream and holler. To me, unless men are androgynous (having female and male qualities), they are brutes. i hate muscular, big men. All it indicates to me is: AGGRESSION, potential beater. I love intellectuals, but men seem cold when they are. I don't know... !!

2006-10-21 02:16:07 · 15 answers · asked by summation 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I am confused about it myself, so I hope I can be clear enough here... the other day I was in a public location and i noticed who I thought was a lesbian and I felt her energy and I liked her calm, smart, intuitive style. I was immediately drawn to her, but I was not obviously making eye contact and I did not even talk to her. It was just a vibe or "air" or profile I saw of her and that was it. But it was so powerful a feeling without negative thoughts, as I usually have of men (I do not trust them- stereotyped imprint in my head). I thought about the possibility of ever having any relationship with her and that I would enjoy it. I have no previous experience with girls or anything close.

But all I know is that I hate men (usually). It is not the physical unattraction or being turned off. It's what I have come to believe men to be untrustworthy. I have not met many men my age (+ 20 years) I can say, "I can trust him". I trust old grandpas, but even them I do not trust...

2006-10-21 01:54:55 · 20 answers · asked by summation 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

people say george is cute but Francis Kes is the sexiest man ever

2006-10-21 01:51:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Does it bother you that bisexual woman and str8-up lesbians are given a free pass, while gay and bisexual men are ostrosiced and thought of disparagingly?

I work in a nightclub with a bisexual female bouncer who openly flaunts her sexuality. She is cool, everybody likes her, but if she was a dude-things would be quite different.

Why do people in America treat Gay and Bisexual men and boys so differently from Bisexual and Gay women and girls?

2006-10-21 01:39:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

im staying at my aunties house. daily at noon im alone at home. daily i crossdress. i am wearing my aunties sarees blouse bangles even bra and nicker also. daily im doing that. now i have dream to show my dressing to aunty. how to express this feelings?

2006-10-21 01:32:01 · 7 answers · asked by meena 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Musilms today are being berated for isolating themselves and refusing to integrate into western sociey. Doesn't this seem similar to antisemitic rhetoric in the early 20th C acusing Jews of living dual lives and not being part of broader society? Doesn't this rhetoric frighten you? Isn't one of the great things about western society is that is guarantees the freedom to live as you choose whether Burka wearing Musim, Black coat wearing Hassid, Buggy driving Quaker or dress wearing drag queen?

2006-10-21 01:31:22 · 4 answers · asked by jack b 3 in Other - Cultures & Groups

I've been always "straight". Dating, and getting it with women. But I felt I had some type of attraction towards men too since I started reliazing what sex is. Nevertheless, I never acted upon it, and ignored it for a long time, supressed it . Now when I came to college, got more involved with male friends, and even saw them undressed, and more importantly had a larger community than school,my hormones began to do their work. And now I find myself so much attracted and curious for a relationship with another guy. I'm confused, although I liked the company of women, but it seems to me that "I had my share of it", and wanna go for it with a guy. Have I been through 7-8 years bi and supressing my attraction to men, or was I gay but "going with the flow"? And should I now start dating men and forget females? Guide me please to the first steps in this, I'm somewhat "Old-New" at this!

2006-10-21 01:29:40 · 12 answers · asked by Jim W 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

i know its a cliche' talking about it all the time and i dont care if i get reported,i have a right to my opinion.before you discrimiate someone for their race or colour please remember nobody chose to be born black,white or tan.we dint fill out an application saying how we want to look or whether we want to be born in a rich or poor family and most of all the colour of our skin.having said that i have never been more proud to be born who i am where i am and the colour i am.i would like sane opinions to this open discussions.the other insane opinions you can air them in a mental institution.

2006-10-21 01:18:18 · 7 answers · asked by xzwnemono1stop 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

i have searched and searched. i remeber when i was in high school they were just starting to look for one. i've found articles on animals and insects having a gay gene, but nothing with solid proof of a human gay gene.

am i not looking in the right places or doing the right searches? i would love to have a reference for solid proof for people who use similar questions as a form of gay bashing, but as of yet the best i can find is fruit flies.

and i want it to be indisputable, so something in a scientific journal or the likes. no conservatist, religious, or gay publications unless the cite a reputable scientific sorce. i'm not trying to be nasty, i'm trying to make it indusputable.

2006-10-21 00:54:26 · 7 answers · asked by Jenessa 5 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-10-21 00:45:25 · 3 answers · asked by Simona V 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

here is a girl at my work, she is a Janitor AND SHE ALWAYS ACT FUNNY WHEN EVER SHE SEES ME WHY IS SHE ACTING LIKE THAT SOMETIME SHE DRAG MY TEA CUP WHEN AFTER DRINKING MY COFFE AND SHE COMES FOR THE CU. SHE JUST ACT VERY FUUNY UNREPECTFUL WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2006-10-21 00:42:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

How do you get adorned ?

2006-10-21 00:39:44 · 5 answers · asked by diveraustria 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Where can a man wear rings and what kind look good?

2006-10-21 00:09:01 · 12 answers · asked by diveraustria 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender