I am healthy but not physically perfect. Nothing that can not be fixed. I started taking good care of myself in my early twenty's hoping to find that girl of my dreams but now find myself alone and with no family of my own. I do not drink or smoke anymore and have not for a long time. I was working out regularly and turning heads till I went to Iraq and was exposed to GOD knows what, (Depleted uranium, chemical from 1980, and heavy food preservitives from MRE's)! Since my health has declined I lost my motivation to work out much anymore but still wonder, why some girls liked my looks and some do not? What are your thought's please!
2006-10-21 03:34:02 · 15 answers · asked by I made this! 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
You probably need to just be happy with yourself. Working out releases endorphins which makes you feel good about u...and most women or men are attracted to people who like themselves..people are generally attracted to people who are like them in that manner. You just need to re-aquaint urself with urself and know that when you don't feel good about the way you look u are not actually seeing urself in the mirror. You have the ability to change the way you feel about urself and getting confirmation from women is not the way to go about it. You will just be setting yourself up for a bad relationship if you rely on her to complete you. Compliments are always good no matte where they come from. Good luck honey, be good to yourself
2006-10-21 07:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by Namaste 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very simple, not everyone likes the same things. What is beauty to one is ugly to another. Do you think all women are beautiful. If honest you will say no. Some are better looking then others and some you would prefer above others. I think perhaps you are looking in the wrong places. Don't give up, there is someone out there for you. Stop being so hard on your self. And good luck in your search for a mate. Being alone is not the worst thing in the world. Being with someone and being lonely is even worse. Why don t you join a church or local singles group. Good luck and God bless
2006-10-21 03:37:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow - you seem genuinely upset at the fact that not every single female thinks you're "cute and handsome". Ever heard the saying 'beauty is in the eyes of the beholder'? We all have different views of what physical attraction (chemistry) is.
Because you speak in your post about hoping to meet the "girl of your dreams", I just want to remind you that real and lasting romantic relationships never last simply based on physical attraction.
I don't believe there is a man alive that EVERY female is attracted to - including you. So, I would just relax, count your blessings that you were able to return from Iraq and work on having a rewarding life going forward. If you want to meet the 'girl of your dreams', stop focusing on her so much. When you least expect it, you'll find her one day. That SHE thinks you are cute and handsome will be the only thing that matters.
2006-10-21 03:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by loveblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, a complete physical would be a good place to start, to see if there is anything physically wrong. Otherwise read GQ magazine to learn about dressing and style, take up martial arts for health and that aura of danger that girls like, and get a good money making job and a nice car to complete the package and girls should then find you attractive.
2006-10-21 03:43:22 · answer #4 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different tastes maby most girls want the same personality adnd that stuff like for them to be sweet and kind but not all girls are looking for the same phsyical looks.
2006-10-21 05:04:28 · answer #5 · answered by cherri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am a girl and i do know that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.some people just have characteristsic in their looks that some people love and others just dont like.best example is latinos.some girls fall for them some hate the look.or maybe its something in your personality that some girls just love and others just cant stand.tastes are different
2006-10-21 03:36:50 · answer #6 · answered by Obilee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has different opinions about what they view as good looking, cute, handsome, etc. Make sure you are satisfied with yourself, and get your confidence in check...once you have done that i'm sure the number of women who will find you attractive will probably multiply.
2006-10-21 03:40:03 · answer #7 · answered by prettydebutante 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it all depends on the girl-not everyone has the same type of guy they like. Just like you find some girls attractive and others aren't your type. It's not personal it's just the way it is.
2006-10-21 03:43:27 · answer #8 · answered by Annie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some girls like the preppy blonde look and some don't, I don't.
2006-10-21 06:44:29 · answer #9 · answered by thorn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"hoping to find that girl of my dreams"
problem solved. the girls that like you are the ones you are not to happy with. stop being picky and marry the fat girl!
2006-10-21 03:44:31 · answer #10 · answered by leavemethefreakalone 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋