favours, i.e. asking for very large sums of money, or asking to come and live in your house. It is o.k. if you wish to give them the money from your own heart or wish to accommodate them at home. I used to end up doing these things for everyone because I couldnt say no and thought that the other person would be very humiliated. I just wondered, etiquette wise, is it rude to refuse someone. I never ask anyone for a favour as I feel the other person may not be happy to do it, or may not be in a position to do it and too scared to hear the word no from them. How do you feel when some one asks you to do something. Do you feel that you should give in to other people's wishes, no matter how you feel and not hurt them, or should you weigh up the situation in your mind for some time and then give them the reply. Someone said, that rather than say yes or no immediately, always say that you would like to think about it, thus deferring the situation, but that doesnt work either.
2007-09-18
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