My wedding isn't until November, but I'm worried about inviting my co-workers. They are ALL women who sit around doing paperwork. I like each of them and they could bring some fun to the night, but they are also very gossipy and "cat-ish".
For example, my one co-worker who I take lunch with daily and is a good friend, has had a lot of issues with the office, especially with one woman, who I like only superficially. My friend was basically alienated/harassed into a different area in our department.
I'd like to invite everyone, but it's going to be a small, cheap wedding and I don't want to come back from my honeymoon to hear everyone's been gossiping or ridiculing the reception or my family. In the past, they've done it. Also, I don't want to deal with the tension it would bring having my friend and the rest of the office together outside the work place. I'm going to be stressed enough.
Should I just invite the couple of co-workers that I'm close to or everyone?
2007-01-14
02:11:58
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