why is it ok for people to be rude to me or even treat me as if i don't exist?

Answer 1

Because you allow it.

Answer 2

It is not "ok" for people to be rude, or to treat you as if you don't exist. Speak up for yourself, and who ever is doing this, tell them, this is not ok, you have no right to treat me this way. Don't let anyone treat you like a door mat either. I found people that accept being treated this way, tend to become doormats, and thats not ok either. You are just as valuable as the next person. They might be smarter, or richer, or prettier, but NONE of that matters, they are not more valuable. Stand up for yourself, take pride in who you are and what you are, and what you believe in. I am not saying that suddenly people won't be rude, or suddenly you will be noticed, but you will feel better about yourself, and ultimately, thats whats most important, not what someone else thinks or feels, for we cannot control someone elses actions, thoughts or emotions, only our own. Stay strong.

Answer 3

No one has the right to be rude or treat you as if you don't exist. You should always stand tall, be proud of who you are, and walk away from anyone who thinks they are better than you. To allow this behavior is unacceptable and will only lower your self esteem. Command respect by the way you carry yourself and don't let your guard down for anyone who thinks they are superior to you...Good luck :)

Answer 4

Who said it is ok?! Rudeness is never been acceptable! But there are more rude people than polite ones that's why we can't be free from them!Just ignore them too!Don't stoop down to their level!Just do your own thing.Don't let them affect you!

Answer 5

please be more specific about what u r asking........................ lol