I am straight. I don't know if my boyfriend is fantasizing about me being with another woman or if he is just trying to offend me. But, he keeps calling me gay. He even asked me tonight if I would be the "butch" one or the "femme" one when I tried talking to him about it. I do not express interest in other women. I like guys. So, why does he keep calling me gay just because I respect peoples' differences? Is he a homophobe? I tried talking to him about this tonight, and he said he does not mind gay women just the gay guys because they have always been kind of mean to him in his experiences. I told him that is only a few experiences he has had though-that's not the whole gay community. I have already posted another question similar to this one. I don't know how to end my relationship with him if he is overstepping the boundaries of humor to verbal abuse. Any suggestions or insights...and please remember, I have already tried talking to him about this behavior of his.
2006-11-05
13:59:01
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zombiefrog
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Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender