My boyfriend of almost two years and I were at a gay bar with some friends. There was a hot guy on the other side of the room. One of the people in the group pointed out this guy and we all looked. As we were looking, my boyfriend said, "Oh, I would so tap that."
We're in a monogamous relationship, and he's made comments like this in the past. I've called him out on it, and he says that his idea of saying he would "tap that", "get on that", etc. is the same as saying he thinks the guy is attractive.
How should I take these comments when he makes them about other guys? Should I feel threatened or worried that he isn't satisfied in our relationship?
2006-07-28
02:50:38
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