after being with my boyfriend for about a year, i just lost my sex drive, or maybe i just didnt fancy him anymore. the whole time he let me know that he was bothered by it, and would ask me what was wrong, and was really upset. he would compliment me all the time, tell me how beautiful and sexy i was etc., but there was just nothing i could do about it, i just couldn't force myself. well things carried on like that for quite a while, and one night he stayed out and when he came home he confessed he'd had a one night stand. we managed to work through it, and stayed together. strangely shortly after that i seemed to want him in that way again, and things were ok for maybe 6 months, but since then now it's him that has lost his sex drive. i know some of you will say 'oh he's cheating' but really, i know he's not. he works all day with friends of mine and comes straight home afterwards so i guarantee i would know. it's not that so what do you think it is? now i want it and he doesn't!
2006-07-17
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