if god give up only what we can handle in life then...?

Question

am i on the verg of kill people 25% of the time depressed and wanting to die 25% and neutral the other 50%? why do so many people commit suacide cause their lives are so damn hard? why does god allow us to search for love but alows us to get in to horrabal relation ships?

NO STUPID" YOUR GOING TO HELL FOR THIS QUESTION" answers! only answers that are logical and actualy explane things. and no "god doen not exzist" answers if you do that give more info than just that.

and if you dont like my Grammar then F U!

yeah i am in a piss poor mood right now.

Answer 1

You've got split personality.
Tell the good guy to kill the bad guy and then the 25% that want to kill people and the 25% who are depressed and waiting to die will be gone.
Live neutral.
Is better and living struggling with yourself.

Answer 2

God allows you to choose. Events in your life, whether good or bad, are meant to be learned from, not dwelled on. People have a tendency to worry about what has already passed, and how they became victims. Why me is the question that is asked the most. The response is either stay a victim, dwelling on the past and suffering, or be a survivor, build strenghth from what you have learned, and move forward and live. Proactive vs. Reactive, your choice. Suicide is the point when you have focused on only the pain, that you go blind. You do not see your friends, family, or even God. All you see is the pain, and all you think about is escape. Self worth is completely lost. If you commit suicide, you are lost. You made the choice to dwell and then die. If your attempt fails or someone is able to get through to you, then you, if you choose, you will focus on something else, instead of the pain. You can then climb out of the hole, with help, and see that what you were ready to give your life up for, wasn't worth it. The common phrase then is "what was I thinking?". A bad relationship is NOT something to give your life up for. Learn from it and move forward. In time, you WILL meet someone who is so great and wants to be with you for a lifetime too. Trust me, I know, because I learned and moved forward. Life is a great adventure, and that is how you should live it.

Answer 3

I'm hoping that this might help you look at things differently. It does seem weird, unfair or downright cra--- (can you say that on here?) that some people seem to get a whole lot more to handle than others but I think that God knows our deep-down potential. Some people have a much greater potential than others and those people are tested more.

Look at it this way. If you are going to grow up to be a street-sweeper (no offense to the street-sweepers, I'm glad one came by here last week) you won't need much education and won't have to take too many exams. But if you are going to be a rocket scientist then you're going to have to sit through an awful lot of classes and take tests to get various degrees.

Some people aren't worth testing. They aren't going very far. Others have the potential to be strong, wise, useful and an inspiration to others but they have to learn and grow and be tested in order to gain the wisdom and respect.

I once read a beautiful story about a lump of clay that was beaten and squashed and thrown into a kiln. It screamed and screamed but when the potter took it from the kiln he then covered it with a horrible smothering glaze and put it back into the fire. More screaming but then the lump of clay was taken out of the fire for the last time and it had become a beautiful china cup.

Maybe you're one of those china cups. Hang in there. By the way, despite what anyone might tell you (I'm betting that you're young) the best years of your life is your 50s.

Answer 4

i do not believe in god but i respect the spiritual beliefs of other people so i will try to answer this for the best that i know how.
all relationships are hard and most don't last forever. so maybe you should try taking the good parts out of it and dismissing the bad. it could be that you're getting dumped on because you dwell on the worst. its is true that many people commit suicide but it is usually preceded by a long time of considering it as an option or even a destiny. if you are feeling this way, you should think about getting some professional help. i'm guessing you are a teenager right? well, there are a lot more options for you than homicide or suicide and it is very easy to have people listen to you and want to help. all you have to do is want to help yourself.
Also, maybe you should not rely on your god to solve all of your problems or point you in the right direction. whether you believe in god or not, you have to admit that humans have Free Will and ultimately it is up to the individual to figure out what he or she is going to do.
i hope this has helped you some, but i'm sure it hasn't. it is only words. what you need is action. talk to someone about this before you fall into serious trouble later on in life.

Answer 5

Sorry you are in a bad mood. Life gets that way sometimes for me too. What I do when that happens to me, is look at all of the good things I have. Sometimes it's hard because I lost all my things in Katrina. My furniture came from Good Will my car got totaled the day before the hurricane with only 80 miles on it. And NO I didn't qualify for government help. But, I have a job. My bills get paid. And have found friends in the new state I reside in. Still, it gets hard but we all can look around at other peoples lives and be grateful for something in ours. Good luck

Answer 6

Well, as one person already stated, we have been given free will- we are not robots and we have a choice in everything that we do. Often we get ourselves in over our heads because we react poorly and make a bad choice in response to something difficult, then as things progress it seems harder and harder to make good choices in response to the situation. We are constantly complaining and wondering why God doesn't change our situation and make things easier for us- often God wants to use these situations to grow us up and make us stronger- we just want to give up anytime things get hard. God did not promise us that life would be easy and a bed of roses- He did say He would never leave or forsake us. Read about Job, Jonah, and Paul! No matter what God was with them and sustained them THROUGH their circumstances. The only thing that differentiates someone who is going through a trial and surviving and someone going through a trial and wanting to die is ATTITUDE- if you believe that God is with you, has your best interests at heart and all things work out for the good of those that love Him, you will be fine- if you have a poor me, this sucks, I hate life attitude - then don't expect your situation to get much better. Often times you cannot change your circumstances- you have no control over nor can you change other people, but guess what? you have COMPLETE control over your attitude and the choices you make- keep your choices clean, praise the Lord and be thankful even when you don't feel like it, be generous with your things, with compliments and encouragement and it will come back around to you!
Hope things start going better for you- keep your chin up and smile, especially when you dont feel like it :)

Answer 7

i think god lets u feel things and go throu things so that u can become a stronger person. These last couple of years, my mom was on her deathbed, we lost custody of some of my little sibs, my lil' sister got pregnant, the other raped, and we went n2 debt. why did god do that 2 me? so that i can become the stronger person i am. i can go throu almost anything and cant no1 touch me. im ready 4 anything people thro my way, and im ready 2 help other people 2, like 4 instance... oh i dont kno, a guy whos on the verg of killing people 25% of the time and depressed and waiting to die the other 25%.

Answer 8

I'm going to speak from my personal experience,i wanna die too,not b/c of horrible relation-ships but b/c life is generally sucks,but i won't commit suicide simply b/c i believe that God has his reasons,he may not show us these reason but he always sho us his graces,yes,without God's grace i wouldn't stay a min on this earth,i do trust him !
& i don't want to think what's will happen if God give up,first,because he won't ever give up,we should stop think of him as a super power who has a certain "humain touche",HE HAS NOTHING WITH HUMAIN NATURE,he's tottally different,only we like to see him this way because it's a simple way to try to understand him,i don't claim that i kow exactly him,no one can,only the prophets can do it,but i beleive that he won't give up ever,he created the humains but he's NOT LIKE THEM,only humains have this nasty habit of givnig up,second,let's suppose he will,i think the worl will simply destroy,think just about thebrathing prossecus,it's not something humains can control,the muscles move inlikly,if it's stop,we die,it's my idea about "If God gives up"!!
Finilly,i like to tell you,life is not always beautiful,but we live it anyway,& i remember that a poet said"Live is soooooooo narrow without the hope's space",just keep the smile,may be someday things wil change to be better!

Answer 9

This is just a guess here because I don't have nearly enough details, but I think you probably have more of a problem with your body chemistry than you do with your relationship with God.

You might try looking to your nutrition and trying to improve it. If you can, check out a product called Juice Plus. It's one of the few supplements I've tried that I could really tell the difference with. You might also get results from eating more alkaline foods like cucumbers and melons; try to reduce carbonated drinks and grains.

It might be mostly your perception of things because of how bad your body feels.

On the note of relationships, my brother once gave me this wonderful piece of advice. Live your life and be happy. Women you want in your life are attracted to happy men who are enjoying their life. When you are enjoying your life rather than looking for that relationship you want, the relationship will come to you. Until then it will run from you. Yes, it worked for me.

Answer 10

This life is a trial and how we go through it is the test. That does not mean we have no options. It does help to talk to someone about our problems, that is one of the ways we are judged also. The lord wants us to share our problems and get help for them, that is part of our learning process. Some times it just takes a friend, other times it take a professional who can proscribe needed medication. In the end he mostly wants us to trust in him and not in ourselves for the answer's. Prayer asking him to help you over come anger and depression never hurts. Read the scriptures and try to do the things he would do if he was in your place.