Psychology - December 2007

2007-12-22 18:04:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-22 17:58:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't care if I'm deranged. I don't care if I have a disorder. And I don't care at all if I'm normal.

I'm just me.

I don't imagine myself falling in love. When I kiss a guy, it's just a kiss. Besides any English native country, from the French to Hispanics, everyone hugs and kisses JUST TO SAY HELLO.

But I'm not unfeeling.

There's just no one to trust. Because haven't you heard the phrase? 'If you want something right, you better do it yourself.'

Why do you need someone? You can have friends, family. Pets, items.

But, secrets can be kept. Small ones that grow.

People may know my favorite color, my favorite drink.

But the meaningful stuff. My favorite songs, my intimate hopes.

It's a small bubble I keep inside. Unhealthy? So?

I believe in cause and effect, in a warped sense of fate.

You can control your decisions, but you can't control your origins or the circumstances befalling you.

Experience shapes you.

Loyalty, patriotism, means everything.

2007-12-22 17:34:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Dated 4 months together 2 months and lived 45 minutes away from each other.she hates me and doesnt want me to be in my baby's life. What can i do to get her back so we can raise our baby together?.when she doesnt even want to speak to me?We didnt really do much together I think all we felt was infactuation for one another but I still want us to work things out so our baby can be loved and not be takend away from his Father.

2007-12-22 17:28:44 · 35 answers · asked by dude 1

noone knows? obviously new beginings are hard, but theres a good side 2 everything (well, basically!). u agree?

2007-12-22 17:17:18 · 13 answers · asked by PaRtYqUeEn 2

I'm not happy with my life and myself. I'm at the age where most people atleast know who they are or have a personality, but not me. I'm a 22 year old introvert, and I have been an introvert for the pass 7 years. I don't have any friends or anything. I'm looking to change that, and be comfortable with myself enough to open up with people. What kind of personality should I try to develop where everyone likes me and wants to be around me? Whatever personality I have now isn't working.

2007-12-22 16:59:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

What's the logic behind this statement?

2007-12-22 16:46:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Physically, mentally and spriritually? I do!!!! Even remove large cancerous tumors and fix heart problems with just your mind through meditation.

2007-12-22 16:41:46 · 16 answers · asked by ? 3

Hi all. So here's the deal. I constantly worry about what other people think of me and I feel like I'm always being judged by somebody, somewhere. I hate having this feeling, and it's getting to the point where it's seriously affecting the way I live. I know that getting over this will not be a overnight process, therefore I need some help. What advice can you give me to help overcome my fear of being judged by others. Thanks!

2007-12-22 16:33:11 · 16 answers · asked by K-Man 2

At one time, Man would have eaten sh*t,probably after finding the odour so irresistible - in the same way flies and worms do - scooping it up greedily and quickly wolfing it down with relish before selection kicked in and GRADUALLY turned 'him' off it. But why didn't selection favour this rather unrefined habit, and thus promote 'recycling' in its purest form? And why do we -'instinctively' - now find the smell revolting..

2007-12-22 16:20:55 · 4 answers · asked by c0cky 5

2007-12-22 16:06:46 · 3 answers · asked by Dntcrosthline 1

Asperger is a average to higher than average intelligence form of autism. That would imply that you must be smarter than average than average to have asperger. Anyway, do you think that asperger causes higher intelligence or is linked to higher intelligence in some way. Meaning to have asperger you also are more intelligence? Like a gene that is linked to high intelligence.

I'm a female, possibly with apereger, which is rare. I am at about 90% per population in intelligence. My friend, who is a psychologist said she though I had asperger maybe 3 days after she met me. I haven't gotten tested though. I do think that I have a lot of the characteristics, but maybe got overlooked because I am female.

2007-12-22 15:56:07 · 6 answers · asked by anon 1

My boyfriend and I are in a semi-long distance relationship. I notice that it is a lot easier to pick fights and vent and b**ch online than on the phone or in person, just because it is so impersonal. I know my boyfriend is getting tired of it, and I feel horrible. He doesn't always have cell signal so we can't switch to talking on the phone all the time. Has anybody else experienced this, and if so, do you have any advice?

2007-12-22 15:54:50 · 8 answers · asked by Wondering 3

everytime i open my email i am so scared to see my husband's name or email because of too much emotional pain and stress but i do still love him. i stop taking medications because i know it's not good to depend on it. i also tried to relax and do something else but everytime i go to bed everything's back in my mind and it feels terrible

2007-12-22 15:51:57 · 2 answers · asked by donea 2

i only think it's selfish when your a parent because your leaving your kids who you brought into this world behind, but thats it.. i'll add an example in a bit.

2007-12-22 15:40:53 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or any other way you can think of.

2007-12-22 15:00:13 · 7 answers · asked by The Walkin' Dude 4

Off the bat I love that my boyfriend games but we've hit some bumps since I bought him WOW last Xmas. Biggest mistake of my life! We've tried having him play at set times and what not but it takes over and he wakes up and goes to sleep playing. On my end, I am a "real world, real experiences" type of gf to him. His comeback to my concerns is that I am being unfair since "multi player" gaming and most of all WOW is his fav game.

I'm literally getting turned off and bluntly depressed over the fact that he's seemingly weighing me or the game even when I'm giving him other gaming options. I'm here to find a middle ground but am at my limit with WOW. Any advice? =/

2007-12-22 14:55:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

The client (26 y/o female) has already had an eating disorder in her past (10 years ago).
She has recently become very depressed therefore, seeking treatment.
She has epilepsy which has gotten worse and severely broke her leg forcing her to move home, past and present family issues (so its a hard situation in dealing with bad memories in her moving to her family home-PTSD?).

-She may be coping with these issues by subconsciously and slowly delving back into the old habits.
-Is just depressed making her not feel like eating.
-New seizure meds. causing low appetite.

Could be different reasons...
But should it be mentioned in the session that i noticed her losing weight?
or ignore it in fear that it may make her want to lose more (if its the eating disorder behaviors coming back)

Just looking for input on what others would do in this situation.

Thanks :)

2007-12-22 14:52:29 · 5 answers · asked by hello 2

2007-12-22 14:44:15 · 8 answers · asked by ? 6

i spend soo much time on the computer... but there is NOTHING else to do! my friends are all off on vaycay i've cleaned out my closet, baked enough cookies to feed a 3rd world country... hell i even dusted every single little wooden thingy in my blinds. i've memorized the location of every country in the world and the capitals of all 50 states. i feel soo lazy... but how much fun is working out or running alone?
PLEASE, PLEASE HELP ME BEFORE I LOSE MY MIND!!

2007-12-22 14:37:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I tend to be a little bit too messy. This is partially because I dont like to throw anything out and even though I can be good at details I dont bother to spend time on something that I wouldnt like doing. As a result I keep too much junk that takes space and makes me disorganized. I guess laziness has a little to do with this too.
I always need some kind of push to get things done. Good thing I dont live alone lol.
How can I set some limits to this habit?

2007-12-22 14:29:50 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2

I feel like crying beacause of all the flaws in my life
what should I do

2007-12-22 14:29:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

if someone fears death, it means that he or she has some unresolved issue or he or she has done something horrible and are afraid to face the judgement day

2007-12-22 14:12:59 · 9 answers · asked by ?????? 1

All my life I have gotten things done at a slower pace than the people around me and always needed to take my time so I dont know if asking this question would provide me with a solution but I'm giving it a try anyway just to hear other people's opinions.
So what do you think? :)

2007-12-22 14:06:45 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2

I let stress get the best of me, I lost my girlfriend of three years my apartment my job and now I am living back at home at the age of 26 and it is all my fault. Its been three months and it seems like I will never get a job and I guess I am asking is how do you keep your head up when you can't get over the horrible mistakes you have made and when your at a low point in your life?

2007-12-22 14:06:17 · 12 answers · asked by Mark 2

Ok well I really cant focus on more than one thing at a time. It would be a useful ability but very hard to accomplish. At least for me it is. I need to take my time and focus on only one person or task at that particular moment.
Is there any way to change this?

2007-12-22 13:58:26 · 4 answers · asked by ? 2

i want to start conversations with people especially this person that i work with sometimes but my social and conversational skills are lacking

2007-12-22 13:48:57 · 2 answers · asked by Madmen22 1

i'm 19 so i guess its normal but when will it end? there will be a period of time when i feel attractive and confident then the next i feel ugly as hell and really self concsious about my apperance starting with my big lips and being skinny. i hate feeling that way i just want to feel comfortable.

2007-12-22 12:00:05 · 8 answers · asked by ch@L@nt 1

Well...not really. But still...It's like this:
I've always hung out with my friends and we've always been really weird. But now I feel like all I am is awkward and strange, and now that me and my friends are broadening our horizons in our friends list and social lives, I feel that I really am such a dork. When I go to talk to someone, I have no idea what to say, although I'm usually not alone with that person, so someone else will cut in and break the silence (thank god). I just feel like I never know what to say...
Also, I'm completely self consious about every part of me. I feel like such a loser, and usually when I go places I'm happy but when I get back home I'm depressed again. I mean, I just want to have friends and be able to laugh and talk to people like a normal person rather than being so, (yes I will repeat myself) awkward, strange, weird, self consious, and dorky.
I'm sorry if my question isn't very clear I just kinda meant...what are some things to talk aobut when you

2007-12-22 11:49:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have ocd and it causes me to obsessively think horrible thoughts. Like for example, my brain will say: i wish my mum would die. When in reality this is the most tragic horrible scenario i can think of, and it's really frustrating. I wish my brain would just shut up, it thinks too much and it's so annoying! How can i stop this. Does anyone else have this problem? Serious answers only please?

2007-12-22 11:39:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous