i'm 19 so i guess its normal but when will it end? there will be a period of time when i feel attractive and confident then the next i feel ugly as hell and really self concsious about my apperance starting with my big lips and being skinny. i hate feeling that way i just want to feel comfortable.
2007-12-22 12:00:05 · 8 answers · asked by ch@L@nt 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Oh! The mind and the body are indeed related.
Please see, when we get some very bad news, the mind instantly triggers a chemical change right upto our stomach, and despite intense hunger, we simply cannot eat even a morsel of food, and if somebody forces it down our throat, we might vomit.
We have to now consciously 'cultivate' the thought process such that it keeps the body chemistry 'positive' at all times, and creates that 'feel good factor', and makes us feel attractive.
It is our own body chemistry that matters more than the features, looks etc, that makes us attractive. That is why many film actors do not seem to attract a large fan-following despite being gifted with good-looking features, where as some 'ordinary-looking' actors have that tremendous mass-appeal!
2007-12-22 12:23:22 · answer #1 · answered by Spiritualseeker 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Its just the moods you have on days, attractiveness has more to do with confidence than anything else. SO you have in the other way around. People tend to be more attractive when they feel it first.
2007-12-22 20:12:28 · answer #2 · answered by Matt J 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well it also depends on your temperament. If you are melacholic you tend to have mood swings which will vary according to what people say and what you think about yourself. Well you have to learn not to listen to how u feel at times.Form a logical conclusion in ur mind :either you are pretty, or not so pretty but outward beauty does not matter that much for a fact but what's inside.
2007-12-23 05:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by jero 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think that's normal.I feel the same way sometime and i hate feeling like that.but what can we do nothing i guess its part of life.
2007-12-22 23:36:24 · answer #4 · answered by Diana$@$ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
erm in my case that has never stopped! due to the fact that sadly looking good counts for almost everything these days. it is something which i hate
2007-12-22 20:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
its an illusion because of mind distractions and due to age thinkings
2007-12-23 19:25:27 · answer #6 · answered by Laxmi Ys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called vanity, that's why it's a sin, it robs you of your happiness. You are the only one that judges yourself so harshly, the rest of the world sees you as attractive all the time. Real beauty comes from your heart.
2007-12-22 20:07:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 29⤊ 5⤋
NO!
2007-12-22 20:07:46 · answer #8 · answered by sixxss 5 · 2⤊ 31⤋