I feel like crying beacause of all the flaws in my life
what should I do
2007-12-22 14:29:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Well then, cry! Cry and we'll talk about the flaws later.
2007-12-22 14:46:13 · answer #1 · answered by Maus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flaws? We all have them! The best things in life are a pain sometimes.
Weathering the storms is a challenge. It is good to learn how to dance in the rain. :)
And a little cry now and then is good to release tension. Then get proactive and focus on the positive and change things for the better.
Just know that you rock!!
Hugs to you!!
:)
2007-12-22 22:38:19 · answer #2 · answered by STEVE H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in order to be happy flaws are needed. flaws are what call you to move forward a kind of bitter sweet discontent. if you were happy all the time with what you have in your life then there would be no desire to move forward. forward to change and better your life.
for example you might be discontent or down right angry that you work extremely hard at a job that burns you out at the end of the day for little pay. one day you will get sooo through with this back breaking work sick and tired of coming home crying coz you can't pay the rent that you one day decide I'm gonna put extra work out for me, keep this crap job yet go to school and better my situation. when you succeed you will feel better about your self. you would have never gotten to the this new point if you never felt that bitter sweet discontent, right?
example, your in a long term relationship that you have been in for 6 years. he has been known to be a real drag, low self esteem loser who refusses to better him self which upsets your future. he cheats etc... though you have been with him for a long time and are scared to move on because you have invested soooo much time in this one person. the discontent is still there. it never goes away. eventually you will get sooo sick of hearing his complaints and sick of the fact that he wont better him self for the sake of the relationship and you your self are now depressed, feeling like him. your heart is breaking that you say enough is a enough i'm moving on. when you do you find the perfect man who takes care of business now your happy. you would have never moved on with out that bitter sweet discontent, right?
in life you can never have the good with out the bad. everything in this world needs to hold a balance. so, try to think about your flaws in this way.
your flaws are a wake up call from life screaming at you that your not happy now move forward and do something to change this.
that bitter discontent is a real good friend of yours believe me, it's true.
good luck hope this was helpful
2007-12-23 02:11:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop it.
Life can suck or you can learn to enjoy the breaths that you take
the people who love you
The moments you feel a tear slide down your cheek or a giggle burst from your heart
The best love connection you have ever had.
Puppy dog eyes.
Your first recognition of the stars and the sunrise
Your self awareness
The realization looking at arms and legs and saying, hey...how did I get in here and OMG I am trapped in here! (referring to your body)
Discovering a new untouched talent you never knew you had.
There are so many things to be alive for...so much good out there to counter the bad so you just have to change from this - to this+ Take Care-Rachel.
2007-12-23 02:28:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deal with the flaws and stop crying about them? That's the first thing that comes to mind. Crying achieves very little.
2007-12-22 22:31:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
you know what?
just cry..let them all out..cry your heart out...
and after, deal with your problems, move on, learn from it, and soon you're gonna laugh about this..i know you can do it and besides ur not alone :)
let me know ok?
-mackerel_23 lives!!
2007-12-22 23:23:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i create things when i'm sad.
i'll draw, i'll write down how i'm feeling,
anything productive i want to do.
hell, color a coloring book, i'll do it all.
creating and doing something productive
always makes me feel much better
2007-12-22 22:38:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
pace yourself...give yourself some alone time to think and plan out things for yourself.
2007-12-22 22:33:00 · answer #8 · answered by drea 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
our feeling sometimes can deceive us. mirror your feelings with the truth.
2007-12-22 22:37:27 · answer #9 · answered by one hot mamma 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take break and relax.
2007-12-26 03:40:51 · answer #10 · answered by Taha* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋