Psychology - December 2007

is that a good thing or not ?

2007-12-25 15:18:19 · 23 answers · asked by ♥BEX♥ 7

I do. I cry whenever a Holiday ends. I'm crying right now. I cant help my self from it. I simple yes or no would be nice. no rude remarks please

2007-12-25 15:12:18 · 3 answers · asked by Bri 3

Hi all. I am 23, I used to smoke pod for 4 years, did ecstasy for 1 and a couple of times cocaine. I quit everything 6 months ago. I am exchange student, used to go to school but not right now. I fell like i dont understand life. As a kid I was always doing everything my way these days kinda too. Its like I am living in my own world, thinking about me and me only. For the past year i have started to realize that life is more complicated than i tought and the world is different. Its like the biggest dissapointment in my life. I am goodlooking but have 0 confidence due to the fact that i realize that i live in my world that is different. When I go to work, when i see a guy its like i start checking them out to see how they act what they do to see if I can somehow understand how to live my life, Its like i might have schizophrenia. I have this voice that dont know if its my inner voice or not (i always tought its my inner but dont know anymore) that always analyzes people and.........

2007-12-25 15:12:14 · 2 answers · asked by The Blade23 1

I thought that everything was going to stay the same especially when your in the 20s where you go out with mates and enjoy yourself.Why is that when you reach close to your 40s that people have to change like getting married etc? When people change you have no mates to go out with and you feel confused and disoriented. It makes you feel depressed and alone. The problem is that you miss that togetherness when you have that same routine.

2007-12-25 15:06:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so the other day i was in class, my mind was wondering and the next thing i knew i got an erection, the teacher looks at me, asks me the reason to me being so quiet and tells me to go write the answer to the maths question on the board, i panic big time, she says "get up now", i get up and head to the board, no one has noticed anything yet.., the teacher askes me to turn around facing her and the class to explain my answer ****!!!!, she see's it and so does the rest of the class..
2 months detention and 25000 lines saying, "I will not act inapropriate in class, i will listen to the teachers instructions and because of my faults i accept this punishment of 25000 lines."

Help me i need a solution this is the second time this has happend

2007-12-25 14:38:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is this ocd, i don't feel happy?
i've been ok for a few days but im guilty again
a few years ago, i said f**king or part of the f word and MIGHT have said jesus right after in my mind, can't remember well though
what IF i said f**king jesus out loud? is this bad?
i also had sexual thought about jesus and god
i've been ok, but i started to think about this again
today, i recalled that i tried to say it whenever my mouth was open like eating and it felt like i was saying it just in my head when i was eating
there're certain things that my brain won't let go of and it distinguishes and i feel depressed for guilt then on, such as this case
is this chemical imbalance?
could there be anyone saying the whole thing out loud with intention and not being guilty at all?
because i did it unintentionally and still i feel that im the only one who might have said this
should i pray for forgiveness
so whenever i start to feel guilty, should i slap myself?
i really don't understand why i have these kind of problems whe
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i really don't understand why i have these kind of problems when people have problems about debt, divorce and cancer
even though i sound crazy, sometimes this is really important because i can rule my life away
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should i ask for forgiveness, but i don't want to because it was unintentional
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i make points of lists to assure that i don't have to be guilty, but i try to not do that because it will get me in deeper and deeper and finally unable to climb back out
i need to have a reason why i don't need to pray to be able to do anything properly or else i'll be always guilty of it
so should i forget about it all in a bunch?
does my christmas sound fascinating enough, it sure does, is this another mental problem to conquer?

2007-12-25 14:26:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

gets mad at m. I think that he did it b4 I knew her only thing that i know is that theyhad sex butits some thing more to it and they have been friends for a long time but ever time that i see him i want to kick his a#$ i dont even talk to him want to know what went on that is all i think that it is to late to call the cops now but how can i get her to talk about it and how can i get her to get help

2007-12-25 14:03:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every morning, I get this feeling that's basically like, "Everything I ever have done is crap, and everything I ever will do will be crap", and that my whole life is crap and will continue to be crap until I die. Occasionally, I get really anxious too, like something really bad happened the night before, or something really bad was about to happen. This feeling generally only lasts a few minutes, but can last up to half an hour. It even happened this morning, and I thought it wouldn’t, on account of it being Christmas!
Once it’s gone, I’m fine for the rest of the day!
Any advice would be very much appreciated. Thank you for your time, and Happy Holidays to everyone!

2007-12-25 13:57:22 · 7 answers · asked by ... 3

I always feel alone in the world. I feel that no one is on my side. Sometimes I get so mad that I'll hurt myself. I always feel guilty. then theres another side of me peaceful and calm. I am afraid to try a lot of new stuff. I don't know why. I have a lot of friends. I have no clue why they like me. I am very paranoid. I know my house is haunted because i hear strange sounds outside my door every night. I am on 2 medications: Risperdal and Prozac. So please help me. I wanna know whats wrong

2007-12-25 13:45:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know it's where to hit a guy if he's attacking you, and i know the S is "solar plexus" and the G is "groin," but i forget what the others are. i feel like i should know them in the event of an attack or whatever.

2007-12-25 13:45:32 · 5 answers · asked by dramaqueen75 1

2007-12-25 13:29:33 · 17 answers · asked by ♥BEX♥ 7

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2007-12-25 13:11:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a married friend whose husband always gets mad and confronts her about things when he has been drinking. He seems ok when he is sober but calls her selfish, self centered and blames her for problems in the relationship after a few drinks. Is someone more likely to be telling the truth while drunk since they have few inhibitions in that state.

2007-12-25 13:07:30 · 4 answers · asked by Homeless in Phoenix 6

what i mean is like cutting yourself, burning yourself, etc...

2007-12-25 12:58:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

It is almost 2 am. I am currently revising for my exams in May. But I feel so drained right now, both mentally and physically.

I have five months left, and I would really appreciate some words of encouragement and tips on how to keep myself motivated because I do not feel like I have the energy left. I don't know how I am going to survive :'(

Thank you so much! :(

2007-12-25 12:52:02 · 3 answers · asked by . 5

Just checking... I know the long list of phobias is out there somewhere. Just don't know the answer to the fear of waking up or being awake. Anyone?

2007-12-25 12:37:10 · 2 answers · asked by Katie 4

when you are having a bad day? not caused by you, but by super rude strangers, all day long..

2007-12-25 12:35:18 · 5 answers · asked by Theanswer 4

2007-12-25 12:28:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been chatting for a few years and

I really like them...I wish everyday that I could meet them
and I know if I ever did, my life would feel complete


Is this really abnormal??? Am I a freak?

2007-12-25 12:27:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

And how much change are the generations ahead of us gaining or losing.

2007-12-25 12:17:51 · 2 answers · asked by strings 1

My mother had an arguement with my uncle because she felt he was autocratic and she was democratic.
I am democratic, my Nan and Granddad who was not so autocratic took sides with my uncle.

It means that there is a split in the families methods of living and my uncle will not talk to my mother, but my grandparents do.

OK

This Christmas, I gave my uncle's son a Christmas present and a card, but I was the only one who did so.
My mother kept claiming she wouldn't *because* she did not get on with my *uncle*.

I am failing in my understanding to figure out why my mother feels no sense of responsibility to my uncle's son, if she does not my uncle.
My uncle's son is still part of the family to me on the basis that he has no responsibility for my uncle's behaviour.
The position in the family does not matter.

Can you explain to me why my mother disagrees?

Sabretooth

2007-12-25 12:10:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I find that when I advise people of something, something rings true in me, but is not yet a part of me.. I don't necessarily understand truly what advice I dish out, and need to slowly understand it. Anyone else know this or think so too?

Also, i know an advice giver who never takes their own advice..

Any advice or opinion ;)? :P

2007-12-25 12:05:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just wanted to see if there are any other people out there like me and if so would you share your story. I am only 22 years old and am so paranoid of something going wrong with me. I sometimes get cold sores and when I do I get extremely depressed. I know it is not a big deal but I can't help it. Every little thing that goes wrong with my body freaks me out...even bruises. Anyone else like this...how do you deal with it. It seems to be getting worse as I get older. Thank you

2007-12-25 12:04:24 · 3 answers · asked by Jamie G 5

I want to be able to not be angry or hurt about the actions of certain people, but when they don't even care that they have hurt you, how do you do that?
I would find it extremely easy to forgive someone that felt bad, but don't know how to deal with this situation...

2007-12-25 11:43:04 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everyday my mom ignores me and yells at me. I might ask her a simple question like, "Do we have any ketchup?" and I may only be a few feet away from her, yet she ignores me. I usually have to ask it 5-6 times before she acknowledges me and then she yells at me like "WHAT DO YOU WANT?!" I end up repeating the same question a few more times because she goes back to ignoring me and at the same time wondering why she is yelling at me and ignoring me in the first place. BUT! If she asks me a question and I don't respond immediately, she will freak out that I am ignoring her. Other times, she won't ignore me but just freak out. I asked if I could go to Zellers with my Gift card and get a pair of head phones and she just flipped right out. She was yelling and swearing and all of this crap. I'm like,"it is just a question". But everyday she WILL sometime for some reason pretend I am not there trying to talk to her. If I ask her why she does this, she will either ignore me still or yell at me.

2007-12-25 11:06:37 · 16 answers · asked by Tim Buck 5

it's just something we don't dwell upon is not the answers i'm looking for.
How does our brain "decoy" this traumatic event that WILL happen to ALL of us?

2007-12-25 11:04:06 · 19 answers · asked by trphuong 1

Basically this guy (high school senior) completely led me on as he had with girls in the past, and I'm only a sophomore!

now, i didn't KNOW about these girls until recently when i told my friend about how i like him, etc. and although he hasn't yet "broken my heart" i want to catch him off guard. I want to make HIM fall for me, but not know whether or not i feel the same way.

But i don't know HOW to mess with his mind, confuse him about my feelings. yes, this is immature, and yes it's dangerous work (he's a genius i tell you!! he's not even the type you'd expect to be such a player. he's a nerd, so to speak!!) so there's no worries that he'd turn the whole school against me..

so how can i do this? how can i get even by playing with his heart? thanks!!

and please don't say "this is immature, get away from him" because i can't. we're in the same competitive club so i see him basically every week. and since he's a senior, i won't see him next year. i have all year to mess with him >:]

2007-12-25 10:33:58 · 10 answers · asked by My Lovee 3

If you tell someone that there are billions of stars in the sky, he would believe you, but if you tell him that the wall has wet paint on it, he has to see for himself. Why? What happens psychologicly to make this accure?

2007-12-25 10:09:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was raised mostly as an only child (i have a sibling but he wasnt born until i was 15, so i consider myself as being raised predominantly as an only child), and born to parents who were both in the military, so of course we moved around a lot. I never had the opportunity to make "lifelong" friends with anyone, and was always "the new girl" when i was in school and sometimes (and still do) found it somewhat difficult to make new friends. i wasn't raised with a lot of family around either, so i've always kind of been on my own, often when it comes to social relationships i kind of feel like i dont need people. however, i am 20 now, and i think i should kinda of be out of this "stage" by now, if it's a stage at all and not just a lifelong thing, i want to be more open with people. did me growing up without a lot of family and friends around contribute to me being less of a social person?

2007-12-25 09:57:08 · 4 answers · asked by Nacho Chacho 7

2007-12-25 09:09:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous