Psychology - December 2007

does it mean we are weak in the head just because we go through trials and tribulations and then have to seek counseling? why can't we, as humans, "just get over it" - Not saying we SHOULD go without counseling, I'm just asking WHY

2007-12-28 11:49:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

when you have met someone and you took an instant dislike to them and then met them again and still felt the same ,or do you take time to get to know them first before you make your judgement ?

2007-12-28 11:32:10 · 29 answers · asked by ♥BEX♥ 7

What's the first thing that comes to u'r mind when u hear this name "Karla"??

2007-12-28 11:21:26 · 8 answers · asked by Im cute u'r not 1

Introduce ya to a very sick girl, now 16. Very sick-minded. How did she get this way? She started masterbating before she knew what it was. As a child, she discovered that pressing in between her legs felt strangely pleasing. She didn't know much about sex aside that it involves 2 naked bodies. When she asked her peers, the reply was an uncomfortable "you don't know? omg, don't worry about it." So she got curious, and through ways, found out all there is to know about it: positions, 69, bi and homo sex, masturbation, sex toys, and other disturbing sexual fetishes. When she found out that masturbating is gross, she felt ashamed and afraid that anyone would ever find out. But since she already does it and it feels so good, she continues to do it frequently anyways. Her mind is a mess. She experienced multiple orgasms. No longer a virgin in mind, she fears any future husband that is a nice guy will like her or think her a real virgin. Fearful, ashamed,sad, soul a emotional wrek. Thoughts?

2007-12-28 11:15:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can a 36 year old woman living in America with bad case of acne with no family or friends or boy friend develop a true case of confidence.Tried every thing on the market for acne nothing works,mother always put her down so had to get away from her to save her self. help please have so much to share with the world but yet to develop the balls to do so , just always think I am note doing enough.

2007-12-28 11:15:06 · 6 answers · asked by lucky 2

2007-12-28 11:11:50 · 6 answers · asked by Jason The Great 6

I heard something on the radio tonight, some psychologist who claimed that teens who are otherwise not popular or quiet and shy at school etc. use online forums such as facebook and youtube as ways of making some kind of claim to fame in a way that is pretty unsafe and dangerous.

Kids post drunken images and videos and photos etc. that they pass around others publicize without their permission.

Is all that a way to gain the attention they don't get in "real life"?

That is what this pyschologist is claiming and they say that teens today need a lot more stimulus and need to be "doing stuff" a whole lot more than teens of yesteryear, ie. they need to be always kept busy.

No wonder parents are stretched to the limit! LOL

Thoughts from both sides?

2007-12-28 11:04:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 18
just finished first semester of college.

and i have no idea what the point in my life is.
i dont know what i want.
i dont know what i need (besides like food and sleep etc.)

i want to be happy but it seems to only come in short bursts.
and the more i try to figure out exactly what it is thats missing, the more confused i become.

2007-12-28 10:51:47 · 6 answers · asked by g g 2

I keep getting angry at my brother for crying all the time and I get mad at everything and everyone, including my family!!!

Idk what's wrong with me, am I stressed out or is that just the way I am?
I'm sick of having to yell all the time, it hurts my head. What can I do to NOT be stressed out or not be angry anymore?

2007-12-28 10:42:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

that you love very much look at you and tell you "Let me go, I cannot live like this!" My oldest sister, my best Friend did that, and when I finally told her it was ok...2 days later she was gone......... Why are things so hard??????

2007-12-28 10:34:31 · 5 answers · asked by Francesca 5

I am madly in love with a girl, I could seriously see myself spending the rest of my life with her, having children with her, giving all of my love to her, I think she is the most amazing person in the world in terms of intelligence and physical beauty (facial features), the problem is, I utterly cannot get sexually excited by her, sexual attraction is the least of what I feel for her, even though she is perfect physically in every way! why?

Do I respect her too much?

2007-12-28 10:26:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-28 10:25:09 · 20 answers · asked by baywatch 3

There are serious questions about these substances that GoD has gifted us all. I see both of them everyday and yet i still have not figured out all the angles.

Hence the questions......

2007-12-28 10:17:39 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is it that people cry over things that don't play any real role in there life. Say the president were to be shot thousands of people would cry over this situation even though they don't know him some people might not even like him but they'll still cry over him why is that? I mean I remember when 9/11 happened I know a lot of people that cried over that mostly women but some men too but not one of them had anything to do with 9/11 none of there family were were involved they didn't know a single person that was hurt or would of been affected by 9/11 but yet they cry there eyes out like there father or someone else they care deeply about died when it happened. Most of the people I knew back then had never even been to new york. Why do people cry and mourn over these things that play no roll in there life what so ever?

2007-12-28 10:14:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-28 10:14:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-28 10:13:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-28 10:10:16 · 6 answers · asked by PinkBlue 3

2007-12-28 09:41:09 · 5 answers · asked by jam1987_1998 1

2007-12-28 09:35:14 · 9 answers · asked by the_bunny_tail 1

2007-12-28 09:33:11 · 6 answers · asked by rara 3

Why did you pick your answer?

2007-12-28 09:11:29 · 3 answers · asked by comedycatalyst 2

do you think it is wise to hold back anger. I honestly don't. If someone pisses you off, show it. Especially when someone hurts my pride;I get violent. I've tried to hold back or walk away, but I start thinking about it later and am even more pissed and regret that I didn't blow up at the other person. So how doyou handle your temper

2007-12-28 09:09:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

The life long question!
The feeling has to be mutual.
Think about it.

2007-12-28 08:56:35 · 11 answers · asked by xdizzynessx 3

can you tell me your stories?
I've been in that state of mind.
(emphasize on STATE OF MIND)
I know how it feels to feel like you'd rather be dead.
I'm happy now.
I'm changing my life and the way I live it and I'm so glad I never committed suicide.
any people who feel the same way?
Can you tell me your story if you have tried and failed to commit suicide?
How do you feel about life now?

2007-12-28 08:50:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

in my dreams I'm always flying and I always end up fighting some kind of demon that's hurting my friends / family and I always wake up during each fight like just last night I dreampt I was in a mall and the hole mall went mad with evil power my friends were still my friends but the people of the mall were pure evil they could do what I could do butt were stronger but i wouldnt give up my first fight I won with ease then some chick came up to me with widened eyes and the pupils were all black/red and we were both flying ... fighting in the air .... I'm always some kind of super hero in my dreams does this mean that I do have powers or something ???? somebody please answere

2007-12-28 08:48:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My height makes me feel inferior, I'm only 5'1 and I'm in my 20's, I don't feel like an adult/woman whatever, I still feel like a teenager and it even intimidates me when some 16 year olds look my age while I look their age. So how do I get over feeling inferior to people taller than me and people who look like their right age or older while I look really young?

2007-12-28 08:43:44 · 3 answers · asked by Melissa 1

I have very few friends. The ones I do have are annoying, not considerate of my feelings and not that intellectual. I have an awesome best friend but I can't see him out of school due to his religious beliefs (He's a Jehovah's Witness)

I find it very hard to make friends. It frustrates me because I know I'm a cool, smart person but whenever I talk to someone I automatically go into a hyper, childish, awkward mode. Also I really don't understand social dynamics.

The problem is I'm miserable and as a half extrovert, I need to be around people. I'm in the drama club and I've met people there but how do you get a cool group of friends that you can hang out with on the weekend? How do you know when to ask for their email address? How can you tell when someone likes you as a friend? How can I actually make friends with people that are nice, cool and smart?

2007-12-28 08:22:37 · 12 answers · asked by I love The Beatles 2

i am seeing things like a dot that changes colors. also i hear music when nobody else hears it. and when i am about to sleep i hear people talking butt nobody is there!

2007-12-28 08:20:00 · 2 answers · asked by green 3

2007-12-28 08:02:36 · 12 answers · asked by godbar 2

2007-12-28 07:59:53 · 8 answers · asked by HaNNiBaL 1