I am madly in love with a girl, I could seriously see myself spending the rest of my life with her, having children with her, giving all of my love to her, I think she is the most amazing person in the world in terms of intelligence and physical beauty (facial features), the problem is, I utterly cannot get sexually excited by her, sexual attraction is the least of what I feel for her, even though she is perfect physically in every way! why?
Do I respect her too much?
2007-12-28 10:26:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
By the way she is very intelligent and older than me
2007-12-28 10:35:38 · update #1
Don't worry... thats not a big problem.
Go out with her, spend most of ur time with her and everything will be ok...
But old is she?
Ya sometimes when we respect someone such feelings don't arise but keep trying.... involve urself into it and talk with her about it.
2007-12-28 10:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by Rani M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have not told about her! Is she also equally interested( if not 'mad'!) in you?If she is,then there is no problem,communicate, share your apprehension in an appropriate moment calmly but with total sincerity; it will strike a chord, thing will move towards the positive direction.
2007-12-29 01:28:04 · answer #2 · answered by Thimmappa M.S. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm. well have you guys tried spicing things up a bit?
maybe you two should try new things...like the positions, location...a lot of foreplay helps with the excitement.
hope this helps :)
2007-12-28 18:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by ilovexo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you respect her to much relax try going out with her learn about her. i'm actually like you similar to your problem but i fixed mind
2007-12-28 18:38:38 · answer #4 · answered by bloody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, if u r in love,it means that u respect her too much.
it is normal
2007-12-28 22:22:09 · answer #5 · answered by mathi kumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋