How can a 36 year old woman living in America with bad case of acne with no family or friends or boy friend develop a true case of confidence.Tried every thing on the market for acne nothing works,mother always put her down so had to get away from her to save her self. help please have so much to share with the world but yet to develop the balls to do so , just always think I am note doing enough.
2007-12-28 11:15:06 · 6 answers · asked by lucky 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Your doctor can help you with your acne problem. There are oral medications that work for the severest cases of acne. At 36 years old, you should get away from your Mother. She needn't be a part of your life if she is tearing you down. A Mother should build their children's self esteem, and not tear them down. Start by telling yourself that you are worthy of being love and that from this moment on you are going to surround yourself with people that recognize all the good things you have to offer. Then, do something to celebrate YOU! Start by seeing a doctor and asking for an oral medication to clear up your acne. Next, make an appointment for a good haircut...and maybe some highlights. Then go to a good department store and make an appointment for a make-up makeover! Shop for some new clothes.Start over with a brand new you to lift your spirits. Also, talk to your doctor about your feelings of not measuring up or as you put it "Not doing enough". He (or she) may be able to help with this as well. Best wishes to you.
2007-12-28 11:37:45 · answer #1 · answered by ceegt 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get Proactive for the acne. My son and a few coworkers use it. It really does work!
Look for a community center in your area. Lots of activities.
Join a book study group at the Library, or book store.
Join a Church. If you don't know which one, try a few. Go there a few (more than 3) times, see how you like the services, how people treat you.
My Mom moved out of state and tried 3-5 different churches before she found one that she was comfortable with.
Check local papers for activities just for singles.
Volunteer!
Good Luck!
SMILE!!
2007-12-28 19:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just put yourself out there I mean what do u have to loose. Just try it day by day doing a little thing that is out of the norm for you such as saying hi to someone you wouldnt usually say hi to then eventually work your way up to just putting yourself completly out there ask someone to go have a drink for instance if they say no its not the end of the world just pick yourself up and ask someone else. best of luck
2007-12-28 19:23:02 · answer #3 · answered by feb29 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not trying to be smart, but try counseling to put some of those things in perspective and try a good dermatologist. Maybe the therapist or th dermatologist can provide alternatives to what you have been trying.
2007-12-28 20:59:15 · answer #4 · answered by Freckles... 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have hormonal issues.
I went on a thyroid pill for my thyroid ok. Needless to say the pill has not only helped my thyroid, but helped my acne.
You could suggest to your doctor your acne could be from hormonal imbalances?
2007-12-28 19:43:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See your doctor and see if he can help you figure out why you break out so bad. Also change your diet. Eat alot of citrus, it clears skin. Also stress causes you to break out so you could get stress releaving pills online or you could take time out of your day and listen to music and work out. Then just relax. Good luck.
2007-12-28 19:25:55 · answer #6 · answered by Cascabel 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋