Psychology - October 2007

I am having issues with worthlessness, and impusivity issues.
I can not stop thinking about things that bother me and it does not go away.

2007-10-09 13:53:15 · 5 answers · asked by dartthrower22 5

Or any of those dark screamers the kids call music now days?

2007-10-09 13:48:18 · 12 answers · asked by kimmie 1

2007-10-09 13:48:03 · 14 answers · asked by ♥BEX♥ 7

If you listen to a particular style of music, like rock or pop, will it effect your personality, and make you think differently with you even being aware of it?

2007-10-09 13:45:36 · 9 answers · asked by Sellie 2

Can you describe a life experience that would set you apart from others? I really need some ideas.

2007-10-09 13:31:27 · 6 answers · asked by Mistress Lucy 4

2007-10-09 13:22:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

List a to do list which works and books like reducing clutter & working Around home etc. I tried to get A correct Spelling how to cope with house keeping Iknow I will be question on this question but how do you get more envolve to do work around home?

2007-10-09 13:02:53 · 1 answers · asked by David H 3

Especially negative things.

2007-10-09 12:42:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a 24 years old man. Basically, my problem is a walking cliché - I hate myself in a way I can't stop it. It's like an addiction to being miserable. I'm always concerned about weight and looks, always craving other peoples' atention and always searching for recognition. I work 10 hours a day just to prove I can do better than anyone else, I workout 2 hours a day because if I don't I can barely eat dinner from guilt and I do a lot of stuff from work when I come home. I barely pay atention to my friends or family. I have a huge problem with being made fun of (probably because I have really HUGE gay tendencies, but never got involved with a man) - if I get the least impression that I'm being made fun of, I go into a depression that's really hard to deal with.
The worst part is I recognize all of this - I know that most of what I'm doing is wrong. But I just can't help it. I can be happy now and miserable because someone made a comment that I assumed that was directed to me.

2007-10-09 12:14:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Psychologically speaking...what do you recommend I do in the meantime and how should I deal with him...

don't contact him anymore, let him contact me
keep conversations short, etc.

we live in different states now

He's left us for another woman...hasn't filed for divorce either doesn't want to pay or deems it as too much of a hassle.

Why do I want to reconcile? I just want to make sure I've tried everything...I told him I forgive him but he still has a hardened heart. I believe we can get through this if he's willing...but that's the thing what can I do to let our communication be positive, to let him realize what he had, to let him be willing?

Please serious answers.

2007-10-09 12:06:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I took a course and now I'm no longer there. But have friends who are there. There is a youth group they invited me to, and I want to go but I hesitate to go because I'm afraid I'll bump into people that I took this course with and they'll start questioning why? who? etc. I plan on continuing the course but at a different location. But in a way, I didn't leave in good terms-my grades weren't good. I know it's no ones business, but still. Should be running into them stop me from going to youth group, I do want to go, but having to explain the situations and stuff to old instructors and peers is annoying. Any adice on how to overcome this?..

2007-10-09 10:31:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

29? 30? 44? I want numbers. Give me your number to the question. give me now!

2007-10-09 10:04:39 · 35 answers · asked by g.ferris 1

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2007-10-09 09:55:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I used to have dreams and things that I wanted to work toward and achieve things but now I don't even know what I want and what it will take to make me happy.

2007-10-09 09:43:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can someone direct me to a website (or several) that speculate on which personality/behavior traits are primarily nature or primarily nurture (and which are a mix)?

2007-10-09 07:20:57 · 1 answers · asked by Daniel E 4

I am trying to be a better person. I find that I complain a lot, often to myself about other people, other times to people about others, which is gossip. How do I stop this?

2007-10-09 06:42:22 · 16 answers · asked by green fuzz 1

to live their lives and in the process then want to hold everybody else back who doesn't agree with their infinitesimally small, vision-lacking world?

I might be biased!

2007-10-09 06:11:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

SERIOUS ANSWERS ,PLEASE
I shower 3 times a day.Once when I wake up in the morning,once after I come back from school and I usually go outdoors in the evenings so I shower when I come back at about 11:30 p.m.Is that too much?And on my cousin's wedding day I showered when I woke up then swam in the swimming pool then showered.I showered again in the afternoon to get ready for the wedding and when the wedding was over (and that was at 3:00 a.m) I wanted to hit the showers ,but my mom said that I should go straight to bed.Do I really have O.C.D?And everytime I go out I shower after I come back,so If I have to go out like three times or four times a day I shower after I come back each time .Should I really worry about that?And I have the flu now ,so I can't shower as much.I just finished showering and I got even sicker.How can I stop myself from showering too much?Or is that normal?
Plus my skin is way dry!

2007-10-09 06:03:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey, I would like your thoughts and input on what makes a person wise or attain wisdom?

2007-10-09 05:52:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

that were close to you can come to you in your dreams ?
thanx in advance

2007-10-09 05:46:04 · 59 answers · asked by ♥BEX♥ 7

I realize that each situation could warrant a different choice; however, disregarding individual situations, which would you choose?

2007-10-09 05:39:12 · 11 answers · asked by ? 5

I have noticed that most females I know are really closer to their mothers than their fathers. Actually, I've noticed that males are usually closer to their mothers also. Could this have something to do with the fact that women find it easier to bond with their children than men? I'm interested in opinions on this please.

2007-10-09 04:16:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

with the way the world is now is it naive to think that a guy who is 21 and has been with his girlfriend for 5 years (since he was 16) was only with that girl and no one else. after all the tiffs and quarrels? He says he's only been with me and thats it. we were each others firsts and he claims i was his only. he was my only???

2007-10-09 04:00:05 · 9 answers · asked by JTOdapizzLE 4

2007-10-09 03:38:23 · 7 answers · asked by cprucka 4

Well, here I am again, trying to put in words all that invades my mind and heart at the speed of light. You know life throws up all kinds of stuff that one can never imagine. The other day, I donno, just out of the blue, my mind started throwing up these conjunction of situations where I was forced to bite my tongue and throw my hands up in surrender. (my mind is crazy like that, one thought leads to another and before u know, u have an entire movie script ready !!)

It got me thinking...all through life, whenever I have been faced with a situation where I was WRONG (of having made a mistake), how it sucked to accept that fact. Why do we feel so - "oh my god, i couldn't have done that. I can't be wrong. There must be some mistake". Well, there was, and I made it.

What is this fear of accepting our worst fear of having made a blunder and having someone point it out to us? Do we really believe that if someone points it out, it reduces something of us. Is this so devastating that we can never rise above it?
We suck, we suck bigtime at a lot of things. Each one of us, no matter how perfect we think we are, or our lives are, we still find things that suck the life right out of us. But in accepting them and dealing with it, makes us learn, widens our own perspective of it. Its our mistake, why give someone else the pleasure of making it theirs?

2007-10-09 03:08:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-09 03:08:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-09 01:20:03 · 5 answers · asked by phoenixxgrey 3

I always promise myself to wake up soon in the morning but I stay so long in the bed and I don't want leave bed. I have entrance exam and I couldn't pass it many times. My time is so important for me but I waste it alot for unnecessary things.

I always promise myslef to wake up soon but I don't do it. I even don't have trust to myself.I don't know what should I do.

2007-10-08 23:50:19 · 10 answers · asked by princess 1

we live in different cities..knew each other a little before and have kept in good contact..always was mutual attraction. we got together recently and kissed plus much passion. i contacted her to meet up..but we didnt make a plan. then she contacted me and i said 'you're always welcome to visit me if you ever want to'. She replied ' i will come but it's difficult to find you there' (i travel a lot). I told her i'd be around for a couple of months. She didn't make any comment or promise. Do you think she is interested in me? I didn't want to sound like i was coming on too strong with the invite that's why i made the invite sound casual.

2007-10-08 23:43:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

what does it mean when people can easily confuse you about who you are, and cause you to think that who you are is ' their ' interpretation of you, like, how they say you are?

and how do you not let people do this to you?




they can cause you to think you don't know who you are...

i know that borderlines have a shaky sense of self...could it be this that maybe other certain people can easily exploit?

2007-10-08 23:40:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous