Psychology - September 2007

I know it means there are 2 ways to look at everything.But after you see both the ways how do you know which is the right way to look at it or to choose.Eg, i now have evaluated a situation and seen both possibilities they are evenly matched every pro has a con.How do you decide which is true and which is false the are both equally convicning and confusing.What would you choose to do?

2007-09-26 04:48:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

why?

2007-09-26 04:18:45 · 22 answers · asked by nonoodles74 7

My husband and I have been married for a little over two years, and we have a daughter who just turned one. Right before I found out I was pregnant, I found a bunch of stuff on our computer that was absolutely disgusting. When I confronted him, he lied right to my face. I have since found it a few more times, each time...lies lies lies. I know he just doesn't want to deal with the repurcussions of his actions, but what do I do? I hate to have my daughter grow up without her father if she doesn't have to, but this is major stuff. I don't trust him, and I have been in denial ever since. I took away our internet (telling him we couldn't afford it) just so I could remain in denial, but it's always in the back of my head. Help!

2007-09-26 04:13:20 · 9 answers · asked by jrdn00 1

I think I am a "blue."

2007-09-26 04:04:18 · 17 answers · asked by janigurl 2

I had ADHD as a kid but I never took any meds for it because I function very well in most everyday details of life however I am in college again and finding it difficult to focus and not let my mind wonder. What would be a viable solution to this? Would going to a doctor and possibly getting some meds help me focus better without distraction?

2007-09-26 04:03:08 · 6 answers · asked by kdl2584 2

Am I along in thinking they are thick of are they just children or winding us up? Just curious. Especially when there is real questions to be asked about the grief in this world and great happiness. Who gives a tinkers cuss what colour of lipstick to wear!!

2007-09-26 03:58:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

making small talk with people? I consider myself to be an intelligent and articulate person but for some reason I am terrible at making small talk with people unless they are family or close friends. Then, if I can't think of anything to say, I feel like an idiot and it probably shows which more than likely makes the other party uncomfortable as well. I have a job where I have to do this alot but I am lousy at it. It has gotten to the point where I feel anxiety creeping up when I know I will be alone with someoene for a few minutes while they are waiting to go in to a meeting. I am an executive assistant and good at everything I do except this. Any advice out there?

2007-09-26 03:56:08 · 15 answers · asked by Betrdz 6

2007-09-26 03:56:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do you know about multilple personalities? i am doing a project and would like help.

2007-09-26 03:53:52 · 3 answers · asked by Connie 1

What do you think the word "intelligence" means ?

2007-09-26 03:43:32 · 12 answers · asked by . 7

2007-09-26 03:12:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

- WHY does it irritate you??

2007-09-26 03:07:36 · 7 answers · asked by sincere12_26 4

I know that they are the only ones who can help themselves...BUT...she has a 6 yr old son, is almost 40, has a habit of managing her time (even working hours) around pick up or eating of fast food, knows that she is at that 'age' where it is now more than detrimental for her life span...etc..etc..
There must be a way above and beyond all the above to prove that it is now not 'embarassement', but 'necessity for her life' that is paramount...The six year old son is starting to speak of his Mom's weight and how she looks different, but really, really loves her as she is so good about Mothering.....Help!!!!

2007-09-26 03:03:33 · 2 answers · asked by basport_2000 5

She's funny, outgoing and very bubbly but her Mother just passed and she's telling me that happiness doesn't exist and that she could never be happy again and all she wants to do is just live for the moment. She has no dreams..No hopes... Nothing. Some one told me to try to get her do take medication...Any advice?

2007-09-26 02:55:11 · 4 answers · asked by Ms.Inquisitive 1

ok well lately i have been having fun n stuff but i have been deeply upset...and i think i've been worked up on "death" and stuff. im worried that someone close is going to die, its random coz its not gonna happen that i know of, but im worried anyway....im okay through the day but at night, i can't sleep coz im soooo worried. any advice on how i can just be happy and not have to worry?

2007-09-26 02:49:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Seriously, if a guy meets a girl and gets to know her a little bit and starts to fall for her and even is with her one night, can he run shy of a relationship? I mean, not call her, avoid her? Does he really need a strong message of interest from the girl before he would get on further? What should a girl do to indicate that she is also falling from him without scaring him off?

2007-09-26 02:12:09 · 7 answers · asked by profe 1

2007-09-26 02:05:12 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend martin is an average joe but somehow he's different. He changes his mind after he decided on one thing like it never happened, one day we say him he was a big bully outside the school(if were not around), in his home a loving child, in our barkada he is quiet but he acts like a nerd, and he is stupid and unaware of thing around him but smart in class.

2007-09-26 01:20:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-26 00:39:02 · 3 answers · asked by cristy a 1

2007-09-25 23:08:54 · 6 answers · asked by Sky Guy 5

2007-09-25 23:01:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Seriously, if a guy meets a girl and gets to know her a little bit and starts to fall for her and even is with her one night, can he run shy of a relationship? I mean, not call her, avoid her? Does he really need a strong message of interest from the girl before he would get on further? What should a girl do to indicate that she is also falling from him without scaring him off?

2007-09-25 22:53:43 · 3 answers · asked by profe 1

and your the sort of person who cares alot about what people think and you want to be liked.

i had a rage and anger problem since 17, im 30 now, i used to have rage outbursts in public and get into fights.....a couple of times i was attacked and have been lucky.
ive had a very traumatic life filled with victimiation and abuse. i have BPD. but now, i feel as though people have a wrong perception of me, like im a loner weirdo, a person to be avoided and now im being outcasted...
this is really bothering me, its a persistant feeling i have.
i remember when i would have these rage outbursts, it was in public crowded places, and at times i was attacked by thugs...other times, people would just laugh and stare at me.
i seriously feel bad about my past and my rage outbursts, and today the feelings are still there but i control it better.

iam trying to get therapy right now. however i feel like ive been outcasted, brandished and tarnished, and my characters been ruined forever

2007-09-25 21:46:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

were asked to submit a slogan for our psychology logo. any suggestion will be highly appreciated. thanks in advance.

2007-09-25 21:38:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-25 21:30:18 · 3 answers · asked by Aken 3

Please tell me so I can FINALLY see some tears! :)

2007-09-25 21:21:48 · 3 answers · asked by JHammonds 2

people who you don't like who have hurt you, your not sure whether you should still be civil to them or ignore them completley and act hostile towards them..
because you want to act howevers perieved as cool or the ''in'' way to act.

does anyone see what im trying to say?

2007-09-25 21:08:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-25 20:38:46 · 3 answers · asked by diah ayu 1

2007-09-25 19:56:28 · 10 answers · asked by faron_jns 1

Many thanks
Drew

2007-09-25 19:46:32 · 2 answers · asked by Drew M 1