Seriously, if a guy meets a girl and gets to know her a little bit and starts to fall for her and even is with her one night, can he run shy of a relationship? I mean, not call her, avoid her? Does he really need a strong message of interest from the girl before he would get on further? What should a girl do to indicate that she is also falling from him without scaring him off?
2007-09-26 02:12:09 · 7 answers · asked by profe 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Its not a matter of intimidation for some men.
Its 'wham-bam-thank-you-mam'.
The deed is in spreading the seed.
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2007-09-26 02:43:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had that dream too... I mostly dream like that when I don't feel all that close to my own husband. I am not sure why but it doesn't mean anything to me other than a happy little moment that I apparently am not experiencing at home. I am happy to report that the dreams have diminished and I go to bed with a smile on my face and my arms wrapped around my husband.
2016-03-19 00:31:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy is that easily scared, he is really not for you. By and large, most guys, it seems, are reluctant to go for a full out commitment. We could spend hours debating the reasons for this, but you didn't ask about that.
What I would do in your shoes is to be open and honest. If he balks and runs, then y ou are better off. Why spend weeks and months of energy on a relationship which is going to go nowhere in the end. Start your relationship off honest and open.
2007-09-26 02:21:30 · answer #3 · answered by Marvinator 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its done by experience my friend. Depends on how long you know each other. In my relationships i have been the type that gets "bored" after few weeks, it has nothing to do with the girl its just my personality. I met this girl in March, went out for a month and i started to feel i was getting bored again and i was looking for ways to get out of the relationship. But i had much different feelings for her, you just feel it! Now 7 months going strong, everyday i find new ways to love her. It comes from experience and maturity, it will happen to you soon :)
2007-09-26 02:20:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are very funny creatures. I am currently in a similiar situation and the more you push the further away he will run. But you do need to flirt with him, and let him know you are interested, but there is a fine line there. I know this may not help alot, but Men are hard to understand. For the love of God, DO NOT say you are "falling for him" that will send him screaming into the night!! Just my humble opinion
2007-09-26 02:22:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUmmm. you just made me think.... I think I am doing that too. Usually I try to run from relationships but this time it's different, I think you right. I might just be realy scared. hummm.
I havn't been myself around him either. well on that note. I really don't have any advise for you other than call him see him again THEN when the time is right send that strong message you were talking about.
good luck.
2007-09-26 02:49:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if I were to meet my dream girl and she is still as I remember her I would probably feel like a nervous, unknowledgable teen again. A man could run from the perfect girl because she makes him feel inferior by her omnipotence or he could really just not want to commit to anyone at that level, or he could know deep inside he is not good enough for her and not want to hurt her or risk being left by her.
2007-09-26 02:31:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is always scarey when you know that you have met someone special. Just take it slow. Communicate. Give it time to see what deveops and to get to know one another.
2007-09-26 02:20:13 · answer #8 · answered by Harley Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slowly and if it is meant to be it will happen...no one needs to make anything happen...
2007-09-26 02:15:46 · answer #9 · answered by Patti_Ja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋