Psychology - June 2007

I can never ever decide on something and make it happen cos I'm always running after something 'better'. Especially in my studies - I have a pretty good Idea of what I want to be and what kind of career I would like to choose - But as time goes by I tend to change my mind and go in a different direction. This has really made a mess of my life.
How do I stick to my plans?. I have everything worked out, but I am so afraid that one year from now I'll want something else and all what I am donig now will be wasted.
Please tell me how not to change my mind all the time?.
Thanks

2007-06-17 01:13:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 20, I basically have no friends. I'm uneasy around people if there is no task to complete (such as a job or a school project) and have never really had friends my whole life. I don't know how to make a friend or be a friend, let alone have a girlfriend. I want to have a family some day, but I really don't see it happening at this rate. What should I do? This makes me very sad sometimes :((

2007-06-17 00:38:55 · 9 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6

5 things that interests you about learning about the subject psychological test

2007-06-17 00:13:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-16 23:58:27 · 4 answers · asked by mothermayhem 4

My friend is 18 but she still has nightmares every night. When she has nightmares, she shivers, chokes in her dreams, she breathes harder, and when she woke up, she is so terrified that she bursts to tears. She often dreams o f dark, empty place, and no one is there, and suddenly she faints in her dream and cannot wake up.
She starts to have the nightmare when we have the first row. So she told me maybe the reason is me. But then we're Ok and her nightmares still continue.
Now she starts to cut herself because she cannot take it anymore. I told her to find a psychologist but she has a phobia since she had a problem with psychologist when she was small.
Now I really don’t know what to do, since things are getting worse.

2007-06-16 23:55:22 · 13 answers · asked by David M 1

people in the future and no that their not going to betray you, abuse you in some way like people did to you in the past?
how can you drop the guard you put up? which will inevitably keep people away from you, also if you act hostile in your attitude because of what people have done to you in the past,
how can you stop this pattern?

2007-06-16 23:55:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

And by what are they weighed or judged?
Are they ever re-evaluated?

2007-06-16 22:58:47 · 6 answers · asked by freebird31wizard 6

I had threee readings mainly looking for hope. The first two were identifiable, the third Im not sure I can believe. The last one seemed to be giving me life knowledge just to make the bill higher and I won't go back to her. Im going to stop because im looking for hope. guess ive got to think what will be will be.

2007-06-16 22:54:55 · 21 answers · asked by Hybrid 2

Anybody else have the same problem, and how do you deal with it?

2007-06-16 22:49:31 · 8 answers · asked by CHERYL B 1

My boyfriend says that when someone tickles your feet, you can control the laughter. I have tried and there is no way in hell I can control it. If what he says is true, why can't I keep from laughing? I don't have to laugh at funny jokes or faces but am totally helpless when my feet are tickled. Is there a way to overcome this like he says or is he just saying this to frustrate me?

2007-06-16 22:45:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-16 22:40:41 · 6 answers · asked by Jamie 4

is it from things that are real or do we find it from the unreal world???? sometimes you force yourself to live in an imaginary world so as to really live for a reason because evrything else around you (according to you) is not true.......

2007-06-16 22:33:48 · 11 answers · asked by madchels 1

Not in all situations can you just say sorry when you feel guilty... how can we deal with a deeper snese of guilt? anybody any ideas?

2007-06-16 22:31:31 · 9 answers · asked by freebird31wizard 6

Father is the man that from the first day of our life till he makes us a Man or a Father too: help us, nourish us, care us and do all that, that makes him the 'Dad' and above all the other in the world.

What is your story, something special you remember he has done for you? What and how?

2007-06-16 22:24:17 · 13 answers · asked by Sidd 7

c'mon be honest...

2007-06-16 21:23:16 · 8 answers · asked by s d 1

to be content w who you and who you are not but wish to be, content where you are in life and what you have or do not have materially?

2007-06-16 21:17:29 · 8 answers · asked by gods child 1

2007-06-16 20:02:21 · 16 answers · asked by suzliyana_sls 2

what very important lesson did you learn so far in your life? and how did you learned it?

2007-06-16 19:29:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-16 18:17:40 · 7 answers · asked by janjan 1

I'm on top of a high building with both my sons the oldest is 2 the yougest 2 months and I'm trying to keep them from falling off I'm holding my baby in my arms and my 2 year old with my legs and he keeps slipping sometimes my 2 year old falls and I swear I can't breathe sometimes in the dream I go after him this keeps happening some days I just close my eyes and because this dream scared me so bad it's still implanted in my head and it's like a daydream only I feel like I'm going to have a panic attack and how can I stop this dream I hate it I don't want to sleep but it's gotten so bad that I see it when I'm awake.

2007-06-16 18:00:17 · 5 answers · asked by fluttergirl2004 5

It's a bit like cigarette addiction - I want to stop but can't. I've reduced the level from porn videos and photos to just stories. But still it haunts me. What can I do?

2007-06-16 17:56:33 · 10 answers · asked by rabid_dog 2

Ive always had really good gut feelinsg about things and usually im right. More and more lately I've been able to tell peoples birthdays when I first meet them.....a few nights ago theres a guy on my MSN that I have never met or seen before and randomly I just knew he was left handed (he really is).....
Anyone have any idea whats happening.?

2007-06-16 17:38:44 · 10 answers · asked by briee89 4

2007-06-16 16:56:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is this something that is truly innate? Or is this someone we do because we've seen it on TV and real life. If the latter, who started the kissing trend?

2007-06-16 16:54:58 · 23 answers · asked by BurningPyre 4

2007-06-16 15:54:08 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Coffin's R FUN to sleep in! 3

what do you do?

2007-06-16 15:48:58 · 14 answers · asked by RT 6

What is the phobia it's self called?
Really interested...
please help

2007-06-16 15:32:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

objective or subjective both would do. pls thank you.

2007-06-16 15:14:17 · 4 answers · asked by wertypeek 1

basically i have a lil sister who always gets her way everything i want she gets...she talks like a baby around my parents and is always sucking up to my parents..she also tries to control every little situation and is very rude...why does she do this and how can i make her stop because its getting me in trouble.

2007-06-16 15:05:04 · 5 answers · asked by JESSICA 1

I posted this in the marriage and divorce section but I think it wasn't the right place....

I was with a man and when we were in bed he'd say 'disturbing' things to me....like, he fantasizes about doing his sister...then he'd ask if I wanted to sleep with my brother? Or if I'd want to see my siblings naked? Does this stuff actually turn men on? (or women?) When I talk to him when he's 'normal' again and ask him those questions he just laughs it off. what does all this mean? why would he talk about those things?

2007-06-16 14:55:16 · 24 answers · asked by Danu 6