basically i have a lil sister who always gets her way everything i want she gets...she talks like a baby around my parents and is always sucking up to my parents..she also tries to control every little situation and is very rude...why does she do this and how can i make her stop because its getting me in trouble.
2007-06-16 15:05:04 · 5 answers · asked by JESSICA 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
The more upset you get, the worse it will be for you. Don't let her know what you want, and she won't get it, maybe. I think the best thing to do is treat people with kindness. As the Bible says, Treat your enemy with kindness, it is like heaping hot coals upon their heads.
She sounds like she is trying to manipulate you, and it is working. By responding to it, you are reinforcing her behavior. Doing what I said is the most effective way. You may not get what you want, but life will be more pleasant for you.
2007-06-16 15:15:09 · answer #1 · answered by cavassi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jessica, It sounds like good ole sibling rivalry. You'll never convince your parents that she is the demon seed, which I think they are aware of more than you think. Be careful not to exhibit any entitlement princess syndrome tendencies and meantime soak lil' sis' toothbrush in orajel, and allow it to dry on it, and add a few drops of baby oil to her favorite shampoo and conditioner. Not enough to be obvious but enough to be vindicated. Practice your innocent "Who Me?"
2007-06-16 16:46:31 · answer #2 · answered by Busy Mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents about it without the sister being around...Explain the situation very formally, don't do it like whining or using too much emotion...Make them see that she's using the suckup routine to get her way...
2007-06-16 15:13:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Do constructive things that have nothing to do with your family, like reading a good book so you will be a better senator.
Oh I forgot to mention that you will end up being a US senator. Your sister will get hooked on crack and end up being a prostitute to help her crack habit. Don't worry about her but worry about the people in your state. You are here to help them.
2007-06-16 15:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by Jet Li 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not forget that is is your "little" sister. it means younger one always thinks they have much right ton their parents love, caring and time than elders. i think she need you love and try to be your sister's friend
2007-06-16 15:14:46 · answer #5 · answered by priya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋