Psychology - April 2007

at first my boyfriend was very inlove with me. he almost gave me everything special..he always wants to see me..always escape his duty just for me..(no sex involved).. then we always quarrel because he was jelouse, he only wants me to be in school, home and with him nothing more. then its like i became a ******. i always give him a head ache already.. now we already our 2 yrs together.. we are already hurting each other verbally.. its like we already have a gap and our chests are like very heavy towards one another already.. then when we had a vacation.. he raped me:c he raped me 3 times and that is the first time we had sex.. i feel bad about it because i am not yet ready to have sex (i am 23 he is 26) now..its like he doesnt respect me anymore.he says he loves me but he always gets hot tempered at me easily.. i can feel that some things are changing..its just like his love for me is not that strong anymore..i want his love to come back?pls help i dont knw wat to think and do anymor

2007-04-15 15:12:11 · 18 answers · asked by mini 1

OCD is normally thoughts that are not related to reality. Could OCD manifest it self into things like spending hours AND HOURS on the internet researching a common worry such as a health concern?

2007-04-15 15:06:39 · 10 answers · asked by GINNIFERLOVESHEWEY 1

get off my computer, i know.

i'm fine with my friends and family of course, but i get REALLY nervous with casual friends and strangers.
usually all i can do when i meet them is smile and say polite things. i can't think of things to say. i just go completely blank.... and into a stupid smiley polite mode. it's ridiculous.

a similar thing happens when i try playing guitar for people. i'm fine by myself, but with people looking at me.... all i can think about is screwing up.

all advice appreciated.....
thanks.

2007-04-15 15:00:38 · 17 answers · asked by bad_ambassador 3

I opened up an account for the third time last wk and I sit here and realize it just makes me feel bad about myself. It's just a popularity contest and a fake world. I've just been really bummed cuz I just started the nrsg program and feel bombarded w/ school and work with no time leftover to socialize...Myspace wasn't the answer. Myspace is childish...its a place to conform. I'm just going to act upon want I want in life and not lose myself in the process.

2007-04-15 14:59:18 · 12 answers · asked by bettyboop 2

I have this theory that people who watch comedy movies are happier than people who watch drama. I need an experiment to test the theory that watching comedy versus drama makes people happier. I need 1- operationally defined independent variable 2- operationally defined dependent variable 3- experimental groups defined 4- procedure 5- participants (who could and how can I select?) 6-concernes or possible issues with the experiment.

2007-04-15 14:44:20 · 5 answers · asked by inquisitive 1

I'm in the 2nd semester of my 1st yr in nursing school and my social life has plummeted becuz i'm always studying or working 12 hr shifts at the hospital to survive my college life. Therefore, I haven't been able to make any friends...I'm a bit disappointed because I didn't think I was going to be sooo busy. Now, I have sucumbed to myspace and for some reason it i'm addicted and it kind of doesn't help me feel better...it actually makes me feel worse. I'm planning on to join a club next semester if time willing...any advice? Ah, being a grown-up is hard and reality stinks but I just hope I can find others that are mature and not collaboraters if u know what I mean.

2007-04-15 14:35:26 · 9 answers · asked by bettyboop 2

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Thanks, for answering in advance! :-)

*Have a wonderful day/night*

Take care!

2007-04-15 13:36:45 · 35 answers · asked by Kimberly 6

do u guys believe in the impossible? let's say u just found out d guy u like is so ' immature'. But u believe he can change his ways by praying to GOD to change his ways coz maybe u care for him, although u just got to know him for 2 months or less than that?

2007-04-15 13:27:46 · 12 answers · asked by 'perfect' gurl 1

I was wondering if you guys could help with something. I am a maths student at university, and all my life I considered myself to be a visual learner. Whenever I write notes in class, I use various colors to highlight between theorems, proofs and examples.

What I find interesting is that with this, I find it very hard to do two things. I often tune out of people's conversations, and do not always get the gist of what people are saying, or understand them. Also, I find reading passages of text hard. I often will read a newspaper article, and not remember what I read well. Also, I used to read many books when I was younger, but now I can't get through one.

Curiously too, whenever I watch the television, I always have subtitles- in my opinion hearing it and seeing it and reading it helps my understanding. Also in a psychology experiment, apparently i was 87% visual, 6% auditory, and 7% kinesthetic.

What do people make of this? Is this just a case of visual learning? Or something more?

2007-04-15 13:01:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

have u ever had an empty feeling like someone or something was missing but u dont know what it is? i get that all the time y is that?

2007-04-15 13:00:31 · 5 answers · asked by amy 2

What do you think the most important think in life is? Between the two options of wisdom and happiness? This is a class assignment and I would love to know what the public thinks regarding this topic. So, in life, do you think it is more important to possess wisdom or happiness and please explain why you chose what you did. Thank you in advance!

2007-04-15 12:44:00 · 8 answers · asked by Mary Jane 2

Opinions??? ... Views???

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Thanks, for answering in advance! :-)

*Have a beautiful day/night*

2007-04-15 12:37:42 · 27 answers · asked by Kimberly 6

I am currently writing a fiction book about a teenager going through the stage of an outcast. I need some help with a few plots- and also, (I too am an outcast in school) I want to see what people other then myself go through. Please send me an instant message or email me.

2007-04-15 11:47:46 · 5 answers · asked by Katie 3

I can't go on like this, no one knows how bad I feel. I'm really scared, I don't know what to do with my child I wrote her a note but I don't want her to find me dead.

2007-04-15 11:01:14 · 18 answers · asked by single mami 2

these may include eye movement, breathing pattern, and so on. please elaborate.

2007-04-15 10:47:30 · 10 answers · asked by Draper 3

2007-04-15 10:37:42 · 14 answers · asked by bright or not ??????? 2

In the end, i think that's what i'm looking for. I know i've given up on suicide, but becoming aware that perhaps there is no rock bottom for me.

To note; no history of drug or alcohol addiction. Maybe cause i have no concept of happiness, or joy, things i like, goals or dreams i'm just drifting on this self fufilled thing til something happens. Explored faith and it's just not for me, as with meds, friends, family, and relationships ... if nothing else, i have burned those bridges good.

So what is rock bottom. thought it would be in jail or in the hospital, or lying nearly dead from an attempt .. but it wasn't .. i keep feeling i can go more. tried therapists, shrinks .. but i guess they deal with those with attachments to people and world or of a faith . I guess for me that all seems so fake.

Don't worry, not expecting much hear, has learned from last 3 therapists that perhaps answers aren't there for those on the outside of the society or of a culture.

2007-04-15 10:31:14 · 8 answers · asked by eagleland06 2

2007-04-15 10:01:23 · 48 answers · asked by weresheepie 2

How to change? Is it natural with aging,cancer, job losses, deaths in family leading to feeling life spin out of control? I used to be fairly organized. It started with collecting up books, then other things, then tried to recycle and that adds to the disorganization of it all, because I am not organized at it and it is far away so I can't go very often. Now I was out of work without unemployment (discriminated bc of cancer survivor and age) and have even been hoarding food as if I am afraid it will run out.Eating constantly to soothe my nerves. I constantly put things in front of the front door (even if I move them and clean it up, I do it again with other things), until it is hard to get in or out of the outside door. I don't know why I seem to be spinning out of control in life... I feel like I am on a boat in the ocean that is constantly tossed about like in a storm.

2007-04-15 09:28:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-15 09:17:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-15 08:22:21 · 5 answers · asked by Bloed 6

I dont do this but ive seen many people who have...what are they? Vampires? Blood must taste awful!

Does it ease pain or something?

2007-04-15 07:03:53 · 23 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3

I know what a lucid dream is, where you can control it. But when Im dreaming and I know Im dreaming, my mind wants to dream of scary horrible things and I have to fight it. Its like my conscious mind is there and I force myself awake to stop myself from dreaming these horrible things. Its so weird and it takes me like an hour after I wake up to feel normal again and not like Im in this evil world my mind made up in the dream. I have ocd and a part of my mind is not under my control, do you think it has something to do with that?

2007-04-15 06:59:46 · 4 answers · asked by joy 2

i live on a college campus where there are all of these tame squirrels that arent afraid of ppl. u can be within a foot of them and they just continue whatever they are doing. so im walking along, and this squirrel is in my path. my first thought was to punt it. i didnt of course, but was kinda freaked that this was wat popped into my head. i saw a little white dog a second later, and thought that i could never punt a dog or a cat or anything, but every squirrel i saw seemed like a puntable entity. what to make of this? the squirels are still cute and domesticated....y was there a differentiation? i have no history of violence, or anything, but i dont think most 18 yr old girls think of punting squirrels.

2007-04-15 06:52:31 · 5 answers · asked by ck 2

Is it possible to be a victim of Heartbreak or does a person really break their own heart by not paying attention to Reality?

Is Heartbreak really a victimless social crime? Is it, in fact, Emotional Suicide? Or are there people who, through absolutely no fault of their own (they being nearly perfect), find themselves in situations which allows their heart (emotional well being) to be trampled upon to the point of pain?

2007-04-15 06:25:53 · 14 answers · asked by Richard 7

I have a project report deadline coming up in 2 days, and I’m having a grate deal of trouble concentrating on my work. Any tips on improving my concentration and speeding up my productivity ?

(Caffeine offers a small boost but I need something more enduring)

2007-04-15 06:04:41 · 8 answers · asked by Shane C 3

plus youve got two missin teeth, at the front ,bottom row..

are the days of gettin nice girls over?

2007-04-15 05:40:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-15 03:45:44 · 3 answers · asked by jafarameri 1

I've always had a thing about being clean, but I have noticed symptoms that I fear may be OCD. Like the other day after showering at night, I forgot to put on deodorant. I got up in the morning extremely irritated and felt the urge to wash my bedsheets and blankets. Maybe I just hate having dirty sheets - I don't know.

2007-04-15 03:40:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just want to inform myself....How do you deal or cope or approach a rape victim? What do you do and how do you talk to her? I mean especially when the victim knows that you are aware of everything; the rape and all. Do you evade the subject completely, do you try to talk about it? Because some persons don't like it when we trod carefully around them when they went thru a traumatic experience. And also, when you disover someone has been raped...I mean on the crime scene itself, moments or some time after it happened what do we do? How do we approach the person, what do we do? What are the appropriate words and actions? Please it there is anyone who works or who is familiar in this kind of situations, please answer. Thanks

2007-04-15 02:27:41 · 7 answers · asked by Farhali 2