do u guys believe in the impossible? let's say u just found out d guy u like is so ' immature'. But u believe he can change his ways by praying to GOD to change his ways coz maybe u care for him, although u just got to know him for 2 months or less than that?
2007-04-15 13:27:46 · 12 answers · asked by 'perfect' gurl 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
That is impossible......and you can never change anyone unless they want to be changed.
2007-04-15 13:30:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does EVERY WOMEN want to change a man!!
But when a man even dares go near to suggesting a change, the women blasts and retaliates as if you killed her whole family!
The idea that you want to change someone, is soooo common. I see many girls doing that for someone they LIKE sooo badly! that they think praying will change a person.
If you believe in god, thats fine. But god gave us a gift of FREE WILL. Therefore, he will not CHANGE someone like that. That is the gift he has given. IF he could, dont you think he will let everyone know that he exists?
2007-04-15 20:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by selman i 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. I met my boyfriend at the age of 16, he was also 16 at the time. We are 23 now and still going strong. He was so immature when i first met him. I thought he was cute, but immature. But i gave it a chance and was willing to talk to him. He was willing to change or adjust to me because he loves me alot. He is a sweet heart and loves me alot. So why not just give him a chance? You have nothing to lose. Give yourself a chance and him a chance. I wish you luck.
2007-04-16 00:04:52 · answer #3 · answered by pretty asian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like someone, then you like how they are right now. Otherwise, you just like your idea of what you wish he could be. God will make him more mature, but it will take years, and it won't be because you prayed for it to happen. It will be because he grew up.
2007-04-15 21:19:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one if u want to change someone then tell them, if u r lucky they will make a subconcious note about it
and second y pray to god? if god made him tht way then it would b for a reason so he wont change it
2007-04-15 20:35:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is immature, he is immature! You never going to change anyone else.
2007-04-15 20:33:57 · answer #6 · answered by TantraGoddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. cant change a man
2. men ARE immature by definition
2007-04-15 20:35:19 · answer #7 · answered by Freakgirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im guessing your religious and no praying to god cant help because god isnt a miracle worker
honey
he is what he is deal with it
2007-04-15 20:30:31 · answer #8 · answered by alondra_panic123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, I've been praying for a guy to notice me and he hasn't till now.. I don't think it really works.
2007-04-15 20:30:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Old habits and behavior are extremely hard to break..............We are creatures of habit and therefore not easily swayed from our patterns of behavior......... If you cannot accept someones behavior or attitudes seek someone who you are more relaxed and comfortable with............Someone is contributing to your happiness or making you miserable..... The choice is yours.......You cannot change another person only they can change themselves if they are motivated to do so.......................
2007-04-15 20:40:24 · answer #10 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋