Hi All :) .. Is accusing someone of loving to argue.. a way of stopping them from disagreeing? ;D?

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The argument isn't necessarily there, but the disagreement is....
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Answer 1

NO.
Accusing them will only make them angrier and make them think that you love to argue, that's why you said it!

People only argue because they WANT to be RIGHT and want YOU to be WRONG. So, to get them to stop disagreeing is to agree and say they are right. If they were really WRONG than they'll learn the hard way. That's life!

Answer 2

I hate to answer a question with a question.... Is it that this person can only communicate if it ends up being an argument? I used to laugh at my parents. They are in their 70's and I would tell them "arguing is like sex for you two.... you two love to argue about anything...you two get off on it" I don't think by accusing someone of loving to argue is a way to get them to stop. But it is a good way to open a discussion on why they do it and is there something behind it that may get to the bottom of what is really wrong.

Answer 3

I would say, no to this question. The person who is disagreeing or to argue, is a negative person. This person can be the type to not want to agree with anyone, for the sake to argue, if this situation is always with the same person, this kind of person does not want to get along with you or maybe others as well.

To accuse them of loving to argue won't really stop them, because this is part of their character. The only way they will change their status in argument is to be more favorable when the occasion arises

Answer 4

well, im one of the people that everyone says loves to argue... thats really not true... usually the case is I just have a different opinion than the other person. however, I do not have a different opinion just for the sake of having a different opinion. So... if people would just listen to the *argument* of the person who *loves to argue* maybe they would agree with what is being said by that person instead of automatically assuming they are just arguing. And really, accusing someone of loving to argue isnt really going to make them stop the discussion, its only going to make them want to get their point across more clearly.

Answer 5

No, I do not think so it would be a provocation in the case of an adult . There are people who love to argue for some unknown reasons that they themselves would be unable to explain in a rational manner.They even need some kind of counselling may be , but i am not a psychologist nor a sociologist , i will not venture myself in an assessment of these persons.
If the person who likes to argue is a teen or a young child , i think that is the usual process of obtaining assertiveness .It's a need young people have. My wife and i have " endured " this arguing stage with our 3 children , who are now adults.
That's my opinion.
Thank you for your question.

Answer 6

No, telling them that is only a topic for another argument. I'm married to a man who can't have a difference in opinion without it turning into a full-blown argument. And, he has to "win" at any cost...even if it means yelling, cursing, belittling or humiliating the other person. Add a nasty temper into the mix and it's absolutely horrible. I've stopped feeding the fire. I make my point and move on.

I've gotten to the point where I can't deal with it any longer. It's one of the reasons we are divorcing. That kind of personality is very dangerous. They will never be happy and will make your life miserable in the meantime.

Answer 7

In all the times of trying to figure human emotions,and beliefs,you must first have disagreements before you can start to argue over different issues.Just the same,both are like a two edged sword,it can protect the weilder,but also cut through him from the other side,if the blade were pushed in his direction.There is only but one solution to this problem.Learn to yield from your veiws,and don't feed the flames of anger for the other party to feed off of,walk away from the confrontations,and let the other party believe what they will.But without knowledge,or research on the issues at hand,their veiws would be empty in conclusion,and then they will understand how wrong they were,even if they do not respond to the fact,or attempt to apoligize for their misguidance,and misunderstandings afterwards.

Answer 8

Well, accusing somebody like that is like pouring gas on fire. It will only further ignite that feeling that may fester within.

Read "How People Tick?", it's a guide to deal with hard and difficult people. I think that disagreeing with that person is only feeding the beast. Try using a more friendly approach, perhaps it would require of you to compromise a bit, but perhaps this person only argues to either get attention, or to simply get on your nerves.

Answer 9

It could go one of two ways - it might come of as an accusation which would make them want to defend themselves OR it could draw their attention to themselves and make them think that maybe they DO argue too much. I think it depends on the person, the situation, the tone you say it, and whether other people agree and tell the person the same thing..

Answer 10

I take concern with that. If absolutely everyone basically stopped arguing... nicely there may be uproar.]# Oh definite! Smurf might turn against Smurf and small toddler hedgehogs might savage human beings stated as Marvin and Nicholas and there may be plenty wailing and gnashing of tooth.