Psychology - November 2006

From my childhood, I have been an aggressive person. I do not think twice before reacting to any situation. In just explode to it based on what my mind thinks. I do not think what the other person would feel about it. Though most of the cases I react in the right way but aggressively. By doing so many have felt am too spontaneous and my actual reaction though its correct gets faded out.
Now am engaged ! I like my fiancee very much. She is a very calm person and very composed. Right opposite to me. She doesnt get angry at all. thinks a lot before talking. But sometimes when I ask her to come out or meet she just slacks. She keeps busy of her work. Now, the issue is, though I understand I should control myself and not react, I feel stressed by doing so. I am not able to talk to her properly next time. The issue always is back of my mind and revisits me all the time.I don't want to hurt her by reacting aggressively as I normally do but am stressed out. Please suggest me how to overcome?

2006-11-22 15:10:08 · 20 answers · asked by Sudhi 2

2006-11-22 14:54:36 · 15 answers · asked by davidcolyer 2

If someone had a head trauma wiping out their previous personality, how would they find out who they are? How would they form a new personality?

2006-11-22 14:51:23 · 11 answers · asked by D K 2

I have a boyfriend, and he loves God too. But when I try to explain my feelings towards the Lord, he doesn't understand. I love God, so much indeed it makes me warm and fuzzy inside. But it's also painful to know that we can never be together. He's so high on the social scale, if you get my drift. I considered becoming a nun, so I could talk to him every hour of every day. But nobody understands my emotions, not even the priest. He told me to get a hobby and say a thousand Hail Marys because my thoughts are impure. My mom called the family pshyciatrist, but I refuse to talk to him. I'm so sick of people trying to either dismiss my feelings, or pshyco-analyze everything I say. I hate everyone, except God and my boyfriend. It doesn't seem like there's any right answer to my dilemma, and I'm starting to get frustrated. I'm also starting to get Stirrings, if you get my drift. I try to picture me and Him, and even if I can't visualize Him, I just try and think of me and Orlando

2006-11-22 14:17:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't want medication but i can't help but think i have a depression problem...........what can i do to help myself without doing anything bad to my body,please help me..............remedies, signs, anything...plz.

2006-11-22 14:11:02 · 8 answers · asked by ALYSSA 3

True or false: "No one lives for a specific purpose, a specific purpose lives for a person". I made that up, but is it true?

2006-11-22 14:08:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

You are driving down a long highway on a cold night and you see three people walking ahead. You only have room for 1 in your car. The three people happened to be your mother, the love of your life, and a known rapist and murderer. who do you pick up? why?

2006-11-22 14:01:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, I had a dream where my deceased grandmother was in it and the people in my dream where trying to figure out why and when she had died. We would look at pictures of her. But also, in the dream, I would be killing people and people trying to kill me. But it really wasn't people, more like monsters that looked like people. What could this mean? It's weird but this dream is troubling me alot and I have been feeling very worried about it. HELP!

2006-11-22 14:00:04 · 7 answers · asked by Lessons_in_life10 2

i'm trying to find out whats the difference in difference in counseling services and skills that they come along with.. I wanted to pursue it in school. what are they and what are their skills??

2006-11-22 13:46:20 · 6 answers · asked by colecole1979 1

2006-11-22 13:34:40 · 9 answers · asked by Smiles 4

I woke up and got ready for school but then as I was doing my hair I noticed that my eyes were unbelievably red, as I looked closer they were bloodshot and had tons of gross veins in them. It really creeped me out! I hate bloodshot eyes! Does this mean anything?

2006-11-22 13:33:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-22 13:16:11 · 14 answers · asked by shermynewstart 7

2006-11-22 13:11:39 · 8 answers · asked by shermynewstart 7

2006-11-22 13:10:31 · 7 answers · asked by shermynewstart 7

Is there a mental disorder that involves not being able to understand seemingly normal actions (like some-one turning on a light bulb) and finding them nonsensical. Whilst you, yourself, are "really" the nonsensical one; by shouting in the middle of a sentence and running out of the building in your PJ's?

2006-11-22 12:46:10 · 8 answers · asked by Daniel B 1

From what ive read, i gather that although it IS natural to the human, it IS fundamentally unhealthy (at least on a 'spritual' level).

id like to hear youre opinions.

2006-11-22 12:37:11 · 13 answers · asked by PurpleLegion 2

Why do I see a huge barrage of questions asking people to interpret a dream in the Psychology section?

Dream interpretation is garbage. No mental health clinician can interpret dreams. This is on par with the non-scientific methods of Freud and abracadabra elements in Astrology.

2006-11-22 12:08:05 · 5 answers · asked by EruditeGuy 2

nice for others do not let negative news or snide remarks stop you .can just exist or decide to live a life of giving be determined to be happy or wallo in self pity .iamm not mean i just believe it is a choice. there is helping people out there just ask

2006-11-22 11:53:23 · 2 answers · asked by woodsonhannon53 6

2006-11-22 11:51:42 · 3 answers · asked by Panda 1

I have some high anxiety and hypocondria, and when I eat sometimes I get really afraid that I'm going to choke and I spit out the food. I've told my mother about this and she's bascially either laughed or gotten mad at me, and just recently she accused me of being anorexic and we got into a huge argument where I was yelling and screaming (because when you have high anxiety or issues like that, someone yelling at you doesn't help) and she launched into this angry yelling, started hitting me with a pillow and yelled that I didn't have any respect for her and she told me not to talk to her or ask her for help again.

I need advice on what to do, because nobody will take the problem seriously and now I'm not speaking to my mother. I can't handle this anymore, has anyone gone through something similar?

2006-11-22 11:50:45 · 5 answers · asked by Dopple 2

this is what happened to me today , but pretend it is you

so you are walking up the stairs with your brother and niece, and suddenly, this sleezy looking black guy comes up to you and says something similar to "your legs are sexy girl, wooh!" or "i wish i could have your legs".

(i didn't say anything) but what would you do

p.s this guy was like 24

2006-11-22 11:43:18 · 3 answers · asked by ipodlady231 7

Can you give me your thoughts on morning moods.

Do you think if you're bad in the mornings is it possible to become a morning person, is my main question?

Do you think it's about personality and not due to life circumstances or do you think it changes naturally depending on things like whether the person is happy with life, if they have to get up every day to a bad job or whatever? How much sleep they got? Bad dreams? I find it quite interesting but I don't really know much about it. I hope you'll write a little on the topic if you have any thoughts.

Also you must tell me, how are you in the morning? :)

2006-11-22 11:18:24 · 10 answers · asked by Fluffy 4

Is it possible to develop ADD (attention deficit disorder) or ADHD (attention deficit hyper disorder) after you are born?

I know psychologists say its not and that you are either born with ADD or ADHD or you aren't... But are there any studies proving you cant develop it? Could drug use cause you to develop ADD or ADHD? If you dont know for sure, I'd still like to hear your opinion!

2006-11-22 11:18:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so i had a dream last night that i told this kid that i loved him. the odd thing was i have never had a dream in color before and in the dream he kissed me n then i woke up but it was like i could still feel his lips i need to know wat this means.

2006-11-22 11:16:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does it matter whether it's positive or negative?

2006-11-22 11:11:21 · 12 answers · asked by soulgirl76 4

i'm only 15. it was about a money situation, because we are having many financial problems. our car had to be fixed, and it costed a lot of money, and he became depressed and thought about commiting suicide while my mom and i were on vaction 300 miles away. now im on vacation again, and i'm afraid it'll happen again. except worse. im so scared. wat should i do? i dont want to lose my dad.

2006-11-22 11:06:04 · 6 answers · asked by agalicktourq 4

I have nothing to do nowadays what do you think I should do?

2006-11-22 10:58:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is a serious question, I am not joking. I saw a woman in Tuscon chasing a Javilna (a type of wild pig, in the pecary family I think) with a rib bone from Tony Roma's. They will attack and can kill you. OK I hate outdoor activities, know very little about zoology, yet I know it is not prudent to chase a wild animal with food. What thought process do I have that she does not?

2006-11-22 10:56:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

After every basketball practice, my team showers together and seeing all my teammates nude really turns me on. I get hard and feel like jacking off. Seeing them completely naked totally arouses me and I don't know how to contain my homosexual urges. Please help me if you can.

2006-11-22 10:54:13 · 5 answers · asked by Underwear Model 1

Money/Position/Power....??

2006-11-22 10:51:38 · 6 answers · asked by yezdi 2