Psychology - November 2006

Ok, I am a virgin, I've never had sexual intercourse. I've done many other things, but the thing is (except for kissing), I always end up feeling extremely guilty afterwards. I think that if I do go through with it and have sex, I would feel very depressed about it after. Not about losing it, but, feeling ashamed. Even if it were with someone who I care about and vice versa. I have never brought this up to anybody, and I don't know if this is a serious thing and I need to see a therapist? Has anyone else had a problem similar to this? (I am 20, and have never been sexually abused.)

2006-11-28 13:22:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-28 13:21:53 · 7 answers · asked by Yo 2

you are butt naked! What do you say ? I mean ya can 't be rude, right? Be creative folks! This should be fun......

2006-11-28 13:16:10 · 9 answers · asked by michael g 6

Your fear
Your self
Your lonliness

2006-11-28 13:12:46 · 23 answers · asked by colin050659 6

2006-11-28 13:12:08 · 31 answers · asked by I am Sunshine 6

I prefer answers from people that know something about psychology. But anyone is free to answer. I am writing a paper on something related to this.

2006-11-28 13:11:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

parents who did not show self love or love for their children, then how do you even know what self love is, especially when you do not march to societies norms, thus are continually misunderstood and rejected. So, what do you mean when you say, "love yourself"
What does that look like?

2006-11-28 13:04:24 · 18 answers · asked by Salsa 3

non helpful answers.

2006-11-28 12:53:34 · 10 answers · asked by Jesus 1

I always keep too much stuff. I think it's because I attach all the stuff I own to memories and I'm afraid to throw them away because it's like trashing a happy memory. Those items have sentimental value, sometimes unnecessary. I also keep stuff because I think maybe someday I'll need it, and then most times when I get rid of something I end up needing it later on (probably because I make up a reason for needing it) so I feel guilty for throwing it away. I just can't stand getting rid of things that I don't need and old papers and stuff. I feel regret. Help knock some sense into me and convince me on why or how I should stop being a packrat!

2006-11-28 12:45:45 · 5 answers · asked by Alice 2

2006-11-28 12:39:58 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-28 12:27:36 · 5 answers · asked by Tboz 1

say some one pisses me off but i don't do ne thing to get rid of my anger, i just ball it up and keep it deep inside. can that get u sick

2006-11-28 12:14:19 · 9 answers · asked by shypuppy2008 1

Sad memories make you sad, embarrassing memories make you feel embarrassed all over again, but why do happy memories make you sad? And how can you make it so happy memories only make you happy?

2006-11-28 12:12:07 · 11 answers · asked by Alice 2

If you only knew who I really was
So many people don’t know my flaws
I wish I could show you who I really am
How my life is all a scam.

Each morning I walk out my door with a smile
I can only lie for a little while
So many mistakes and too many times I look back
One day this will all end in a brutal attack.

How have I become this monster I don’t even know anymore?
It seems like yesterday I was adored.
What happened to that little girl that would never do any wrong?
When I could come to a place where I would belong.

Families are supposed to be there for you through thick and thin
When that trust is broken, it sends chills all over my skin.
I can’t let that happen to me, I refuse
I do not want to be seen as the person I really am in others views

2006-11-28 12:08:37 · 4 answers · asked by Brittany 2

My experience, well my and my brother girlfriend were going out to hit the town in Cookstown in Northern Ireland (incase your wondering where cookstown is) I was doing her hair, and the chair she was sitting on was facing the dressing table. As the night goes on, she went and got herself drunk, we got a taxi home and I put her to bed, It was a struggle, I got myself ready for bed too. I had to sleep in beside her. As I got in and relax, I heard a few noises, now this girl lives in an countryside, not a sound or a peep, as I was about to sleep I heard a loud noise, And I felt a cold air rushed passed me. I was abit scared but ii managed to get some kip. The next day my friend woke me and she wanted to know what was the craic last night, as I was about to tell her my heart wasbeaten faster, the chair that my friend was sitting on the night before has moved and it was facing us and next to her bed. I had to tell her I felt a cold air rusted to me,she was spooked!! I never forget that

2006-11-28 12:06:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-28 11:50:12 · 23 answers · asked by noble 1

I find my cousin sister always crying for everything even for small petty things.... but her mother always consoles her.... I used to advise the mother just leave to her for sometime everything will be alright after some time and the cousin will feel relieved from tension....but poor mother crys and tells this is a bad habit..........????

2006-11-28 11:50:08 · 8 answers · asked by kings Beauty 1

what wold you do if your family did not admit abuse. what should they have done. how to go about it. what would be the risks of not done. what would you say and feel. what if you asked other family members to acknowledge this and they did not.

2006-11-28 11:37:50 · 5 answers · asked by 070sx 1

Only those who have lived with a sociopath know the extent of their control & how they creat their own reality. I was married to one for 26 years. I finally got the strength to leave him. Yet, he has a long arm that abuses even when he lives out of the country.
He has left a path of destruction. And even those who sees him for what he is won't take a stand against him. That is the power he has over people. I have a son who is now dead becasue of emotional manilupation from his father.
Scott Peterson is a soiopath.
I am older and ill. I depend on his support checks. I can't live on SSI. No one can live on$800 a month.

I need some other people who understand the madness and how it can destroy a family. We all need to support each other.

My question is how do I live the rest of my life without losing my mind or my life. If I were well I would move far away and work to earn a living. I can't do either. This man vowed to destroy me if I left him. How do I surrive?

2006-11-28 11:34:21 · 3 answers · asked by cuttiestrawberypie 2

2006-11-28 11:31:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-28 11:25:08 · 2 answers · asked by a1980 3

I mean individually not altgother, e.g.
Loss of sight = blindness
Loss of hearing = deafness
Loss of taste, smell and touch?

2006-11-28 11:19:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really hate relying on people.

2006-11-28 11:19:33 · 100 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel sometimes, the more I was rejected by Human nature, I loose my trust among people. May be I may have born in a different ways. The more help, show caring, too good to the people, less respect I receive.Why? Am I a foolish? or too sensitive to hurt people? Sometimes I feel like, I,m too open, out-spoken. How can I win anybody's trust, no perticular special personin my life.I treat people equally.

2006-11-28 11:11:14 · 15 answers · asked by Liz 3

I need 10 different things that people can be fearful of. I dont want phobias but soild things like Height and Darkness. Thanks in advance.

2006-11-28 11:09:13 · 7 answers · asked by Ben 2

2006-11-28 10:51:22 · 10 answers · asked by Cas 4

My(soon to be ex)is not making life easy.she know how to push the right buttons,I think she has a degree in it.Please help!

2006-11-28 10:49:37 · 11 answers · asked by Square Root 1

I know I may get thumbs down for this question but I have to ask it any way.
How many gals out there would like for the guys in your life (husbands, bf, fathers, brothers, bosses, friends, or whatever) to once every year or so have a visit from "Auntie Flo" ? Don't you think it would make them better able to understand what it is like for us?
And wouldn't it be fun to watch them have pms, double over with cramps and pain, blot, and generally be miserable for 3 to 7 days a month?
Yes I know some guys act like they have pms every month but they have no idea do they ladies? lol
How well do you think they could take it? Would they be so fast to tell us to get over it the next month when it was our turn again? Or would they be such babies about it that they would refuse to get out of bed the entire time? lol

2006-11-28 10:44:35 · 18 answers · asked by pj_gal 5

2006-11-28 10:15:47 · 8 answers · asked by schloop 2

im young, and i stress out over alot of things..at times i think i'm depressed, would i look stupid if i went and asked my doctor? im scared of people thinking im just being a big baby about life.

2006-11-28 10:08:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous