My(soon to be ex)is not making life easy.she know how to push the right buttons,I think she has a degree in it.Please help!
2006-11-28 10:49:37 · 11 answers · asked by Square Root 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Believe in yourself. Put iPod in ears and go for a cool breeze walk. then meet your friends and have some tea.
2006-11-28 10:53:20 · answer #1 · answered by 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I do. I'm reserved, an introvert and submissive in person. I started being that way because I wanted to eliminate drama, and just stay out of trouble altogether, and it does work. The grass isn't always greener on the other side though. Sometimes I get really frustrated for keeping it in, because it just bottles up and I never know if I'll snap and ... freak out, haha but, when I look back on it all, I still believe staying calm and neutral is the right thing to do.
2016-05-22 23:30:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get caught up in the moment. Treat this person as if someone is just passing through. Be kind and when she starts reaching the emotion button, just excuse yourself from the room or go to the bathroom. The purpose is to give yourself some space to breath again. Look at the situation as if someone else is watching it and you will see that it doesn't need to get dramatic. There are so many ways to detach, find a peaceful one and practice it. Good Luck.
2006-11-28 10:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by freesample1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop giving her the power. Make a list of the things you enjoyed doing before you were with her that you did not do during your relationship. Make another list of thing you would like to do that you have never done. Concentrate on doing those things. You won't be around for her to get to.
2006-11-28 11:00:19 · answer #4 · answered by thirsty mind 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it as a business relationship now. Detach yourself and take care of business. Mourn later if you have to. Breathe. Go for walks.
2006-11-28 10:52:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try breathing exersizes.
In for 3, hold for 2, exhale for six. Repeat as needed.
2006-11-28 10:53:15 · answer #6 · answered by luckyaz128 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try deep breathing exercises.
2006-11-28 10:52:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just breath, smile and ignore. Don't let her get to you. I know it's hard...let me tell you I know it's hard...I have 2 sisters that know how to push my buttons so they can getting me angry...but I've learned...just ignore them.
2006-11-28 10:56:26 · answer #8 · answered by stargazer673 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol u sound like my boyfriend "u kno how to push the right buttons dont ya?"....i donno but u have to not let it get to u to the point where ur very badly affected.....just breathe...its a part of life for people to do stuff we dont want em to..
2006-11-28 10:54:19 · answer #9 · answered by i hate mosquitoes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Think before acting.
2006-11-28 10:58:00 · answer #10 · answered by Albert 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋