Psychology - September 2006

If someone is malicious,is it better to assume they've been hurt in the past and give them kindness,or would it do the gosip more good to get tough on that person.Anyone had an experience like this---it's totally malicious,I've realised that since I started working somewhere new,vicious gossip whish has no factual basis has been circulating about me.Please help me out here as I'm a man and I don't want to be seen to be a bully(the person doing the damage is a woman).

2006-09-03 22:21:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-03 22:01:10 · 5 answers · asked by sangbayan 2

I have always taken pride in my ability to balance both sides of my personality .
I am good and evil .I accept this as part of my make up .
but Im loosing today , My negative side is strong , my positve side is sick . It cannot compete . I would tell you more but its too hard right now .
Please understand due to my psyche , nothing personal religion will not help , it is not the means to my plight .
ineed to get a hold of myself . I probably know what I have to do , but I am to self indulged to listen to my own consience .
Help if you can .

2006-09-03 21:26:10 · 8 answers · asked by kevin d 4

Someone once told me that I would never be in love unless I made some major personality changes. Maybe she said that because I am not very emotional or trusting. I admit, I've never been in love and usually prefer to follow my head than my heart. That blind, possessive and irrational form of love that some people covet isn't desirable to me.

I'm not an insecure person, but when someone says something like that to you, it makes you think about yourself. What do you think? Are some types of people simply excluded from love?

2006-09-03 21:25:16 · 8 answers · asked by Subconsciousless 7

I dreamt that I saw the mother of my boyfriend eating pomegranate round her table at her house. I looked at her and I asked her why is she eating it and she replie: "it makes your blood stronger" Can you interpret my dream please I would appreciate? I have found something about pomegranate and blood but not dreaming about them together.

2006-09-03 21:12:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ever since childhood, my sister, who is 2 1/2 years older than me, has been bossy, condescending, always saying I am wrong, and the other person is right, irregardless of the truth. She is one of the most ungrateful people I know toward me, but nice to other people. I do SO MUCH to help her, but she NEVER says thank you. I even help her financially if she needs it, but stilll no thank you. We are not kids anymore, she is 57 and I am 54. I was a well-respected school teacher, and am very financial secure compared to her. I know she resents my retirement with a full pension. But why has she been this way for her ENTIRE life? Does she have some deeply rooted psychological problem, or am I the problem? I try my best to treat her with love and respect, but it's getting hard to do so. She keeps telling me that I'm the problem, not her. What is going on? Will she ever stop acting like a 15 year old brat? Any suggestions on what I should/could do? Why do you think she acts this way?

2006-09-03 21:03:50 · 12 answers · asked by MrZ 6

what's your opinion of the film "silence of lamps"?

how did this story effect your psycology?

was it good that society watched it?

2006-09-03 20:58:25 · 6 answers · asked by Helen from Greece 1

What do you make of an unprincipled coward who refuses to make a stand -- or even take a position -- in virtually every aspect of his sad existence? This is a "man" who allows others to walk all over him, happily taking orders and otherwise bowing and scraping his way through life. This same person is a confirmed fence-sitter, always remaining out of any debates or disagreements no matter what might be at stake.

Depending on what you make of our subject, consider this bizarre turn of events. This same craven individual recently saw fit to hop off his "safe and secure" fence only to attack one who had been his friend. It was the quintessential stab in the back, both unexpected and unprovoked. Now, what would be this worm's motivation in choosing to stab a trusted friend in the back? Was it because he felt comparatively safe in attacking an unwary friend rather than confronting a dangerous foe? What is the psychology behind such a vile act? Feelings of inadequacy? Passive-Aggressive?

2006-09-03 20:50:48 · 13 answers · asked by MacSteed 7

2006-09-03 20:50:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-03 19:09:39 · 16 answers · asked by aquariantears 1

You are driving a bus. you pick up 7 people and drop off three. You pick 8 more and drop off everyone. Later you pick up 9, whats the bus drivers name?

The answer would be your name.

2006-09-03 18:55:30 · 9 answers · asked by luke14parker 1

what should I do when a good friend tells me that he suffers Depression? Ho w can I help him? now it seems that he is so sensitive. what should I say to him ? I really want to give him some help and save him from the mental disease.

2006-09-03 18:46:04 · 11 answers · asked by elf.com 1

I'm an affectionate person...and sometimes wish that I could give str8 (and gay males for that matter), a hug without feeling out of place.

2006-09-03 18:34:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-03 18:33:18 · 20 answers · asked by YahooAnswers 5

please tell me what you really think.

2006-09-03 18:20:54 · 9 answers · asked by markmartin681 1

2006-09-03 18:16:45 · 6 answers · asked by the curious dane 1

You know what I mean? You're trying really hard at something - whether it be a video game, playing the guitar, or driving. Then that little tongue unconsciously pops out and usually points UP (Like Charlie Brown).
Or....what other unconscious behaviour do you exhibit when you are concentrating?

2006-09-03 18:11:18 · 7 answers · asked by jimjones3 4

OK, I met a guy on line 6 months ago. He asked for my photos and has got them, but he asked me not to ask for his. We started having sex talk about a month ago, and he started it first. He asked me detailed questions about those guys who tried to have sex with me. When I tried to ask him about his sexual experiences, he told me he didn't want to answer. He told me he's very experienced, but I kind of doubt it. I asked what he was afraid of, he simply said, "much afraid..." He just said that!!! Now he knows how I look and stays in touch with me, so I guess he doesn't find me TOO ugly to not write me. But I don't know what he's afraid of, rejection or what? He told me more than once that he'd prefer me to IMAGINE how he looks rather than giving me his photos OR telling me how he looks. I really don't understand this guy, could you please tell me what you think he's afraid of. Your input is greatly appreciate. Thanks a lot. p.s. I'm a straight woman, and he's a straight guy.

2006-09-03 17:48:32 · 11 answers · asked by CRT 3

How did you do it?

2006-09-03 17:26:33 · 11 answers · asked by sueflower 6

iam mother raising my kids to have respect for all others in world. It pains me to realise that there are some very mistaken and in cases evil who will make this world a very dangerous place. All governments worry me. is there such a thing as an uncorrupted government? is it a man thing? was reading about the kennedy clan and it is amazing what they got up to and yet are for the main remembered as decent and held up etc..

2006-09-03 17:13:04 · 10 answers · asked by rosyreal 2

Like in general, people talk more than they really get a grudge and act on it. He said "I'll see" what he does.

2006-09-03 17:09:18 · 13 answers · asked by Hymn 2

Some ?s to ponder while I am away....
Why can a pizza get to your house faster than an ambulance?
Why are they called apartments when they are all stuck together?
If flying is so safe, why do they call the airport the terminal?
Isn't it scary that doctors call what they do "practice"?
Why is "abbreviation" such a long word?
If you try to fail and succeed, which have you done?
I will leave you to ponder...

2006-09-03 17:06:28 · 17 answers · asked by nikki fm 2

first off, lucid dreaming is knowing your dreaming while dreaming; thus gives you complete control over the dream. look up "tulpa dream" in google, if you click on the right web site, it will tell you how to lucid dream easily. Was this info helpful? Do you think I'm wack?

2006-09-03 16:54:07 · 9 answers · asked by Corey 1

2006-09-03 16:23:19 · 4 answers · asked by nvsweets2006 1

someone once said that booze is truth syrum, just curious of the publics take on that.

2006-09-03 16:16:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-03 16:13:44 · 23 answers · asked by Kelster 2

The full moon is this Thursday. I've heard many stories and stats on web sites. But what are YOUR experiences with the full moon and tell me if it has some effect on you. Are you different during this time? I've experienced some really funky stuff. Let it all out.

2006-09-03 16:03:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2006-09-03 16:02:55 · 14 answers · asked by Gingerbread Man 3

i am the slow one. my brain is slow

2006-09-03 16:02:49 · 11 answers · asked by pyarali2 1

OK.. situation, this dog is a rescue, she's a pup, and has the ability to GROW! She is of a batch of pups I was volunteered to give away, and I gave them all away, BUT this one. She has a hurt leg that needs attention, she needs to be spayed, and all of the other vet things that comes along with a new pet.

We have 3 dogs, we don't need this new one, but it is abandoned by my Great Aunt that was placed in a nursing facility. My Great Aunt cried that she couldn't have her pets, she wanted to keep ONE. Since this one hasn't left yet, should I keep it?

How do I convince the hubby?

2006-09-03 16:00:02 · 14 answers · asked by Craptacular Wonderment 6