OK, I met a guy on line 6 months ago. He asked for my photos and has got them, but he asked me not to ask for his. We started having sex talk about a month ago, and he started it first. He asked me detailed questions about those guys who tried to have sex with me. When I tried to ask him about his sexual experiences, he told me he didn't want to answer. He told me he's very experienced, but I kind of doubt it. I asked what he was afraid of, he simply said, "much afraid..." He just said that!!! Now he knows how I look and stays in touch with me, so I guess he doesn't find me TOO ugly to not write me. But I don't know what he's afraid of, rejection or what? He told me more than once that he'd prefer me to IMAGINE how he looks rather than giving me his photos OR telling me how he looks. I really don't understand this guy, could you please tell me what you think he's afraid of. Your input is greatly appreciate. Thanks a lot. p.s. I'm a straight woman, and he's a straight guy.
2006-09-03 17:48:32 · 11 answers · asked by CRT 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
In my humble opinion, he's afraid of something, either rejection or recognition... or he has something going on physically that makes him think that you wouldn't want him again...
As he doesn't want to tell you about his sexual encounters, perhaps he has not had any?
Something is goin on with him....
2006-09-03 18:00:14 · answer #1 · answered by boj12345 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sadly enough YOU SHOULD BE AFRAID !!...you have just explained to many people the reason you DON'T DATE ON LINE! This could be a very dangerous guy...and you have no ideal what he looks like...all you have is a phone number or and address...i knew a guy once that had a public telephone just 5 feet from his bedroom window...that was his connection....his address...the empty house next door....I am a counselor...i know a lot about people...you need to cut this off RIGHT NOW!!!! don't answer calls...no more communication what so ever....not telling you anything about himself...is bad enough....maybe he's married...or a straight pervert....you shouldn't do this again....got it.....
2006-09-03 22:14:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's married and afraid you might recognize him.
He's a polygamist and has 4 wives and 4 lives.
He's 16 and a virgin and afraid you might find out.
He's incarcerated and he can't meet you any time soon.
He's a Sasquatch who stole a laptop from some hikers.
He's not really a guy after all.
Look, any time a guy like that is hiding something as basic as his photo, you are entirely justified in your suspicions.
2006-09-03 18:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by Zelda Hunter 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's something he doesn't want you to know about him. The possibilities are endless. Unless this one-way e-mailing and sex chat is ok for you and you don't expect anything else... it's your choice.
Personally this sounds like a situation to back away from. The main thing is for you to be safe. Does he have personal information about you like your address? You might want to be careful and if you do decide to end it, keep records, document everything and contact the authorities if you feel threatened.
Good luck.
2006-09-03 18:04:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have no idea who he is (even if he did give you a picture). I wouldn't trust that online stuff as far as finding a boyfriend is concerned. The Internet is actually somewhat dangerous. The best place to meet dates is out in the real world.
2006-09-03 17:52:01 · answer #5 · answered by Avanti 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he sounds a little strange and is hiding something since he does not answer your questions. This guy is really a stranger to you. Beware, he could be a 90 year old she or worse.
2006-09-03 17:58:43 · answer #6 · answered by winkcat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, it is too easy to "meet" someone on the internet etc.. It is sounding creepy so unless he shows who he is don't trust him. He could be really old, really young or not really a man. Words are cheap... be careful!
2006-09-03 17:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
BECAUSE IF YOU SEEN HIS PICS YOU WOULD REALISE HE IS AN OLD UGLY 66 YEAR OLD MAN......
forget him and move on with your life! meet a nice person face to face not online...
2006-09-03 17:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by xsplodeit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
More than likely he's married or something to that effect.
2006-09-03 18:18:20 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are wasting your time in a most wasteful way.
2006-09-03 17:55:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋