Psychology - July 2006

I love my wife with all my heart, but she is very overweight (I mean she has no figure at all because she is so big). She is really upset with me because our love making is not passionate and it is hard for me to be really passionate towards her because of her size. I have only ever told her that I love her but when she has asked why our love making is not passionate, I have explained to her that the more I can see of her figure, the more excited I get for her. I have never told her she was too big or anything like that (I would never do that). She still gets upset because our love making is not passionate enough and I don't know what to tell her anymore, I just keep saying the same thing and she still gets mad at me. What can I do?

2006-07-19 02:21:12 · 18 answers · asked by guy4laffs 1

will you learn to fight your own battles...or will you grow to depend on your big brother to protect you when the local bully steals your lunch or throws snowballs at you?

if you CAN protect yourself, isn't it nice to know big brother is still around to watch out for you, just in case you slip up and need a hand?

scut farkas and hezbollah, together for the first time. everyone is watching... what WILL you do?

2006-07-19 02:20:39 · 8 answers · asked by patzky99 6

2006-07-19 01:50:31 · 23 answers · asked by stevo65 1

(You can not use it for more wishes, or anything that would grant you 'more wishes') SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY :)

2006-07-19 01:39:37 · 27 answers · asked by Nagnag 3

I'm paranoid. If I'm walking down the street I'm constantly thinking about whether people think I'm ugly, hell, I even get paranoid about the way that I walk and whether people see me as geeky. I know its all in my head but I can't help the way that I think.

I also have issues with my confidence, which people tell me is silly because of my line of work (I'm a stripper, and when I'm in work is the only time I feel happy and content with myself). I feel like the thoughts are taking over my life and when I do go out I can't leave the house without a full face of makeup and my hair perfect, which means that I'm late for almost everything. But this doesn't seem to help because I still get these thoughts.

Do I need professional help?

2006-07-19 00:19:44 · 10 answers · asked by sneakinaroundlookinsuspicious 2

- I want to ask about my situation -
I can descriple my self as not self centred i mean no longer getting contact with my abilities. I quit study,work for 5 years for hard time i went through. I was so depressed back then now i started to train my body. I always write down notes for my self ....notes of encounters i have in my daily life ( i do not know ) how to activate them seriously.
PLus i always has the expectation thing which bothers me alot.
They say expectation is frustration...is that right?
Plus i do things waiting for comments how i can i get in my own actions and sayings with out them? Someone told me you have to challenge your self so you can grade YOURSELF. But i have to boost the feeling of SELF first. Is there any kind of training for this? I hate the way i think toward things i do.
How Should i take (compliments) from other people and use them for MY SELF>??? inestead of taking them suprefacially:-(
Maybe when i was a kid i was not like this..it was differ

2006-07-18 23:50:43 · 13 answers · asked by haya D 1

2006-07-18 23:12:18 · 15 answers · asked by The_Big_Willhuna_Y'll 1

and whacking ducks with violins. Why?

Should I learn to play the violin?

2006-07-18 22:48:36 · 5 answers · asked by Coffee-Infused Insomniac 3

2006-07-18 22:12:30 · 12 answers · asked by babyblu 2

2006-07-18 22:11:04 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

... are still doing this. Theres no reason for it, i have good jobs, im a gd person, i dont do drugs. Thing is it messes me up as im always striving to get there approval, and as hard as i try i cnt.Is there anyway i can get out of this vicious circle???????

2006-07-18 22:03:21 · 21 answers · asked by tunachunks199 1

every time it has put me in a soup which ever option i take.........

2006-07-18 22:02:29 · 3 answers · asked by greeksun 2

2006-07-18 21:58:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have you done it, would you do it. Have you actually had any experience of it???

2006-07-18 21:21:25 · 12 answers · asked by HarryBore 4

2006-07-18 21:15:44 · 3 answers · asked by lethaandshankar 3

I am sure it is some sort of obsession, I have been like this all my life. I want to change but I find myself spending way too long considering why I should keep something. For example, I will look at a bread tie for 5 minutes thinking about why I should keep it. My life is now cluttered and I have a very hard time prioritizing what to throw out, what to put in which closet. I want to change, I want a cleaner less cluttered life, but it is so much work. Help!

2006-07-18 20:57:06 · 15 answers · asked by tempelocal 1

when i am sad, I go to places just to see happy people, do you do the same, why

2006-07-18 20:54:05 · 7 answers · asked by howsureyouare 3

2006-07-18 20:46:45 · 8 answers · asked by a V a 4

When someone's sh|t starts to stink, I am never hesitant to cut them out of my life. Why is that? Is that a bad thing? Usually I reach this point when I can't trust them anymore.

2006-07-18 20:44:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

does that make me bad?
I’m not doing a bad things but I’m not doing the good thing I should be and its hurting people
Well if me not doing it and it is hurting some one I suppose its a bad thing

2006-07-18 20:26:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-18 20:05:16 · 13 answers · asked by tunachunks199 1

what did u guys wish for??

2006-07-18 19:55:09 · 7 answers · asked by girly_girl 3

2006-07-18 19:18:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I cannot stand conflict and try to remain on good terms with everyone. I do not think this is a realistic approach to life and I realize that this approach can prevent me from doing what I want in life; however, I have yet to learn a mindset that allows me to experience conflict yet remain at peace with myself. Any words of wisdom?

2006-07-18 18:49:12 · 12 answers · asked by JMY1998 1

2006-07-18 18:45:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-18 18:08:31 · 8 answers · asked by Michael C 2

Is everyone and everything one big accident?

2006-07-18 17:45:20 · 26 answers · asked by rilit 1

2006-07-18 17:44:39 · 23 answers · asked by ignacio_sanchez2006 1

I'm not the best looking person. I'm having trouble getting a girlfriend. I can get desperate girls pretty easily, but thats not what i want. I want to know what is it about a guy's personality that makes girls attracted to them even though they aren't good looking. I'm not talking about having money here.

2006-07-18 17:36:29 · 23 answers · asked by sam 1

Thanks for answering, in advance!;)

2006-07-18 17:36:15 · 12 answers · asked by Kimberly 6