I'm not the best looking person. I'm having trouble getting a girlfriend. I can get desperate girls pretty easily, but thats not what i want. I want to know what is it about a guy's personality that makes girls attracted to them even though they aren't good looking. I'm not talking about having money here.
2006-07-18 17:36:29 · 23 answers · asked by sam 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Its all about confidence,the way you talk, walk ,even the way you sit. Just dont act shy and believe in yourself, believe you can get any girl you want. Just remember dont let your ego take over once you get the confidence because that can lead to girls hating you.
2006-07-18 17:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by TEH N00B 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Different people find different things attractive. Some love a good sense of humer. Others are turned on by brilliance. Some just want a kind person. But, if you're a not-hot guy wanting to get a hot girl (and not looking at her other qualities), then you probably won't be successful, since she's probably looking for a hot guy and not caring about those other qualities either.
2006-07-18 17:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by Paul B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have answered your own question. You said "I can get desperate girls pretty easily."
So, what is lacking in you is respect for girls in the first place. You respect surface beauty more than inner beauty. Calling a girl 'hot' is a reference to her appearance. Girls want to have fun, not just be used because of their appearance and sex. Learn how to respect the personality behind the appearance. That is the person who might want to spend more time with you.
;-) Girls are people too!
2006-07-18 17:54:40 · answer #3 · answered by China Jon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most guys that look good have a really bad attitude and don't know how to treat a lady. Looks are not all that matter to most girls. If a guy treats you with respect and his looks aren't that great he is still more likely to get the girl.
2006-07-18 17:45:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence baby. No confidence, no sex. It's that simple.
Humor in general works well, but one of the best ways to show confidence is to make fun of a girl. Especially if she's very attractive and is used to being complimented and worshipped by guys. Basically if you act like you don't need her or even want her, she'll want you. It's kinda messed up but that's the way it is.
2006-07-18 17:41:11 · answer #5 · answered by Guelph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a word..."charisma." Charisma involves confidence, humor, assertiveness, courage, and the ability to be sensitive to the needs of others (or at least appear to be sensitive). People that aren't born with "good looks" are usually forced to develop their personality in order to attract the attention of other people. The more developed your personality is, the more attractive you become.
2006-07-18 17:48:38 · answer #6 · answered by lucid_anomaly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are nice, but I would much rather date a guy with manners who is really nice and not self absorbed. You sound like a nice guy so dont worry about it. I know that a lot of girls feel that way too. The right girl is out there and dont worry you will find her. Until then, just relax and be yourself.
2006-07-18 17:41:36 · answer #7 · answered by A* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In no particular order because these all rank #1:
Personality. Sense of humor. Knowing when and how to smile. Confidence.
2006-07-18 17:39:13 · answer #8 · answered by ymingy@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 08:00:00 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to have a winning personality.
Be confident in who you are, and that your worth her time. Be aggressive but not pushy, be yourself in every way, show your true emotions, be open but not reckless, make her laugh, tell her how she makes you feel inside.
Good luck, you'll find someone who fits you perfectly someday and you'll wonder why you ever doubted yourself.
2006-07-18 17:42:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋