My girlfriend (before I knew her) was going to med school, but had some family problems that caused her grades to drop, and she failed out. This was 2 years ago... I only started dating her this summer, but it's apparent to me now she's not over it. She was really reserved about her past (didn't even want to tell me she went to medschool) and I think the problem stems from her being a huge overacheiver (and highly successful) throughout her life, and not being able to deal with that failure. After that, she aimed low in job searches, and generally has low self-esteem now.
She's been working a job that she's too smart and over-qualified for, and I've been encouraging her to apply for internships to advance her career, and she did, but now she's freaking out thinking she won't make it. She's been taking anti-depressants, and I really don't like how those sedate her.
I don't know what else to do. How can I help her get over her past?
2007-11-02
13:51:53
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redguard572001
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