Loners and "free spirits" who come on real strong at first. Then they slip into a pattern of addictively emailing me or calling me, but somehow keeping themselves at distance. They love corresponding with me and talking on the phone with me, but I want someone who wants to be with me. I don't think that's too much to ask.
I'm on a time-out fr. dating to heal and do some soul searching. This is what I have noticed ab. my recent dating history. I already know that, as Melody Beatty puts it, I can be attracted to the frog and not jump into the pond. What I want to know is this: How can I change this tendency altogether? Fix my radar, so to speak? Or can I?
Looking back, I can see that the best relationships I have had in my life were with guys I initially was not attracted to, in that special way, at all. Guys who knew what they wanted and made time to put some positive energy into the relationship.
I have a great life, overall--that I want to share w/ someone special.
2007-10-19
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