Sometimes we (men and women) are accused of flirting, when we’re only (as we perceive ourselves) being charming. I have a friend who’s very charming as I see him, in that he is interesting, and draws women to him with his charm, but he never flirts in that he doesn’t make passes at any of the women (he’s very happily married), nor does he make specific sexual references, only humous sexual innuendoes. Yet many people say he’s a big flirt.
Being raised in the South, we were raised to have good manners, but with a little charm thrown in. Sometimes I am also accused of flirting, yet nothing I say involves making a pass at a man.
So what do you see as being charming versus being flirtatious? Does speaking in sexual innuendo make charming turn into flirting?
All thoughts are welcome.
2007-10-18
05:14:25
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