I have a major problem, and it involves saying 'no'.
I can't do it!
I mean, obviously I can say no in general conversation and to really stupid stuff, but when it comes down to a situation where it's only going to affect me and the person doing the asking, the word can't escape my lips.
Like I posted on the ciggie thread, I give LOADS of ciggies away. People around here always ask, and I can never say no. Even just total strangers on the train or in a club, i'll give away 30 in a night! I DO NOT have the money to do that, but I can't stand to feel selfish. At they'd know if I lied about having any as soon as I sparked up!
Similarly, I can't say no when it comes to someone trying to get with me. The other day I was in a bar and ended up making out with some guy (admittedly, he was very attractive, but I still don't normally consider it good to do things like that) because I
2007-03-18
01:32:04
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