i can't be with someone if i'm not in love but i so want to be with someone, :) so does writing about it make me pathet.. 'cause it's not the real thing and i have been single for a long long time and fear i may remain so.
thanx
2007-03-18 01:16:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Juliet,
It's not only normal, it's a wonderful way to express yourself! You should write about whatever you feel, with no apologies! You sound really sweet. I know that your "prince charming" awaits you somewhere down the road. But in the meantime, don't fear being alone. It can be a beautiful and enlightening time for you. Just be confident in yourself and love yourself. Also, be kind to others and everything will work out just fine for you. Patience and faith....remember that and best wishes to you, young lady!
2007-03-18 01:30:57 · answer #1 · answered by JOURNEY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not pathetic. Writing is one way to express our dreams and goals. If you have the talent to satisfy a need that isn't currently being fulfilled due to the fact that you won't settle, then you are truly fortunate. Many people rush into relationships because they fear being alone or love being in love. Often, those relationships end in divorce.
Good for you that you can use your mind and talents to get through life and enjoy the idea of romance. It's a truism that sometimes wanting is a far more pleasing thing than having.
Enjoy the wanting....
2007-03-18 08:53:56 · answer #2 · answered by NavyMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah it's okay! Just don't get lost in the worlds you create.
2007-03-18 08:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by em 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww... of course it's normal!
2007-03-18 08:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by messiahandrw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋