My g/f that lives in the States, has serious mood swings, I can do no right. One example, I bought a cheap watch yesterday, just to tell the time...that's all I need. I said "shame it's not a rolex"...she then went silent on me and said could she go. I tried to ask what I had said, and she accused me of wanting nothing but money....I tried to say It was a joke....I don't even want a bloody Rolex.....I accused her of trying to control me...that was it...bang, the phone goes down and refuses to answer it.....help!.....is it me? She does this all the time....she is coming to live here in two months, but has threatened to cancel the flight on a number of occasions. Is she just insecure...as am I because of the distance...I have told her how much it hurts me...and I get told to "get over it" or "grow up"...I wish I could tell more...Does anyone know what she wants....I even offered to live there, got the house valued, then she said she will come here..control? and will she fly?
2007-03-18
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