A. Lock them up in the future.
B. Lock them into mental health treatment plus at their
expense but starting with the parent(s)
C. Be their parents.......exempt from the drama filled sales
pitch. *Structure/Love*
I choose C....A & B is into beating the tar out of our children well into adulthood. What's your choice?
2007-03-18 00:14:43 · 3 answers · asked by GoodQuestion 6 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
c. both my oldest daughter and my younger son have tried to control me and have me do a lot of things that I did not think was right.
The last straw was the fact that when both of their marriages failed and they would come to me for financial support I had to say no. I think when children get in their 30's they have to stand up for themselves and when I cut the money off to them they have treated me like a stranger.
Money is what holds a lot of parents to their children. If you want to see how much your children "love and respect you" then cut off the money and make them pay their own way through life. I have long learned to stop worrying about these fair weather relatives. I also they are the better for it too.
2007-03-18 00:34:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first i love all my kids,,,an i go with ....a.. on the first one.,,,,an c......, but i like to talk to them an try to find out what going on with them,,, an if ,they dont give me a choice, but to give the a good a,, warming,,
2007-03-18 00:25:04 · answer #2 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 100% right
2007-03-18 00:18:25 · answer #3 · answered by booge 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋