Social Science - 20 February 2007

OK.... I was a in a really bad relationship about three years ago, a relationship that consisted of beatings, mental, physical and emtional abuses. Also sexual. I've dealth with the the beatings, mental frustrations, physical issues and therapy for the emotional, but what do I do about the sexual. My ex-boyfriend made me give him oral, literally make me. Grab me, throw me down & before I could get up he would be in my face, saying her bytch sukk my ____ Crying, face bruised and broken... I would do what ever he said or get more teeth knocked out.
Now I have serious issues and I dont' like giving head, it seems so degrading to me. I have trouble finding pleasure in something that I was made to do.
My current boyfriend is excepting, understanding and has been VERY, VERY patceint .... but he is still a man and as a woman....his woman, I want to satisfy him, in every way.. but how can I? The thought of it makes me absolutely sick, i don't want this to ruin our relationship

2007-02-20 05:34:30 · 6 answers · asked by Sunshine_Diva 4 in Psychology

2007-02-20 05:33:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

My problem is I Hate... Hate...Hate. Being alone. I dont mean like for 5 min, but like when I know I am going to be alone for more than an hour I get really depressed and I dont know why. Any one else ever have this problem?

2007-02-20 05:30:52 · 8 answers · asked by Cathy L 1 in Psychology

should the USA do what Madrid, Fance, & Italy did, and ban under age & under weight models and create a voluntary code about the portrayal of the female body? what should parents do to help shape their children's sexuality before it gets warped by the media? what can women do as individuals?

http://news.yahoo.com/s/afp/20070220/ts_alt_afp/uschildrensex_070220135757

2007-02-20 05:30:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Gender Studies

What You think about the combination of aggressiveness and the fact of being an initiate. If you are obliged to be very aggressive in your profession for instance, if you have to defend other colleagues or make negotiations with the government, and so on, you are obliged to be aggressive to defend the people. After that, you sometimes feel very wrong because you say, "Okay, I am an initiate. All this day I was very aggressive, it was bad." But I am aggressive for the good things, to defend people.

2007-02-20 05:22:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

2007-02-20 05:19:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Gender Studies

2007-02-20 05:18:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

From religion, kids, weight, animals, and evern my up coming wedding this year. I feel like taking her by the head and slaming her head down on the table but I know I cant! How do I deal with someone like this? HELP!

2007-02-20 05:10:34 · 11 answers · asked by jeremiahs gal 1 in Psychology

I guess I am also asking if we make ourselves who we are or if we are just the product of factors out of our control?

My answer: I like to believe and try to live as if I am in control. But when I sit down and think about it, it seems that I'm pretty much locked into the hand I've been dealt.

2007-02-20 05:09:44 · 3 answers · asked by Subconsciousless 7 in Psychology

However, I know that the only way to change my total body image is so work our and eat right. For me it's more of an internal things. I can work out and eat well but I tell myself "You can't do it" and I get discouraged. Any sugestions on how to reach my goal?

2007-02-20 05:08:02 · 17 answers · asked by jeremiahs gal 1 in Psychology

I am watching the history channel and a couple of interesting comments made:

The average dollar BILL lasts 22 months.

The coins we make today will be around for hundreds of years.

Could dollar coins save taxpayer money?

2007-02-20 05:07:03 · 5 answers · asked by Mr. Bodhisattva 6 in Economics

2007-02-20 04:56:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

Hi, this is about my younger sister, she just is really antisocial. She genuinely prefers her own company (always) and doesnt really have any friends. She's not depressed, she loves making up weird sketches which she finds very amusing and talks to the dog A LOT. and not like "dog" stuff but everything (particulaly physics and astronomy).

I mean i know some people are just like that, but i really want her to be able to talk to people, stuff like know when someone is bored with what she is saying or not to start a conversation about allotropes of obscure elements during a girly gossip session she tagging along to etc etc. Just to be able to make friends, perhaps grow up and have a family, get through interviews.

I genuinely do care about her. Would a doctor be able to do anything, or is her personality set in stone? she is always open to suggestions (e.g. persuaded that dandruff is actually NOT good stuff and to change shampoo), or is there a therapist or psychologist something?

2007-02-20 04:50:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

2007-02-20 04:49:08 · 8 answers · asked by ツ 1 in Gender Studies

2007-02-20 04:47:21 · 2 answers · asked by jo 3 in Psychology

please be honest.

2007-02-20 04:47:05 · 5 answers · asked by Netti 4 in Psychology

does anyone else have a hard time staying awake during movies? like, theater or even home. even if friends are around and the movie is good i almost always end up asleep sometime through it, even if i wasn't tired at the start. anyone else experience this? i can almost never watch a movie through the first time

2007-02-20 04:42:21 · 5 answers · asked by marisaB 1 in Psychology

according to UN statistics there are more than 15000 child dies every day due to hunger

2007-02-20 04:40:33 · 7 answers · asked by jalal dodif 1 in Economics

Explain in details

2007-02-20 04:32:55 · 4 answers · asked by nelo4meever 1 in Economics

2007-02-20 04:30:23 · 12 answers · asked by oobedoo 1 in Gender Studies

So, I've got writers block. Am looking for a really interesting plotline or story idea for suspense/mystery. Any ideas?

2007-02-20 04:29:05 · 6 answers · asked by Super Ruper 6 in Other - Social Science

Just for starters, I can't seem to word this right. So, bear with me and I'm going to put it into single sentences to help me.

*I have an idol. She is my hero. Gisele Bundchen.

*People who have idols/heroes have them for a reason, right?

*They like their personality, spirit, and beliefs.

*Some people want to be exactly like their idols/heroes.

*But when does it become an obsession rather than just admiration?

I probably didn't explain to everyone's satisfation, so just answer anything you want that pertains to the question.

2007-02-20 04:28:17 · 2 answers · asked by Sabella 1 in Psychology

I have just walked home about two miles from my local tescos, I was feeling all fit and energetic when I woke up today so been walking everywhere.
Anyway, I walked home along a path than runs alonside a dual carriage way for almost the whole two miles. As I was walking along, I recieved a new personal record of 12 beeps from passing drivers. I wasn't wearing a skirt, I wasn't anywhere near the road, I just didn't get it, I know men beep us girls if they think we are cute, and it doesn't bother me at all, in fact by the tenth beep I was feeling a bit like a mini movie star or something, but guys, why do you do it? What is it's purpose? And I ask this with no malice, as I say, I was laughing my head off today at the amount of beeps I got, but what does it MEAN? Also girls, does it bother you when you get beeped?

2007-02-20 04:27:38 · 27 answers · asked by CHARISMA 5 in Psychology

I use to write songs when I was depressed. Now I'm happy, have a loving gf, take good care of myself, and I seem to struggle with writing. Maybe it's because I'm forcing myself to write? I'm not really sure. What can I do to get inspiration again? My friend is heavily depressed now and seems to be writing alot. Do you have to be in a bad mood to be productive when it comes to song writing or what? Do I need drugs?I'm totally clean..I don't drink or smoke. I use to though..and I know if my addictive personality is just using this as an excuse to go back or what. Please give me some answers if ya can...gotta go exercise now.

2007-02-20 04:25:44 · 4 answers · asked by Ryan H 2 in Psychology

Who purchases items based on the country that produces it. I mean, it's much smarter and better for our economy if one strictly purchases products made in Canada. But I was wondering who actually lived by that law and meticulously scrutinized products to ensure that there made in Canada prior to buying them. Of course, for some things there's no way of going around the import, but for the other products?
Do you consider it worth it, to pay higher prices for Canadian products rather then pay low prices (dollar store) for products related to cheap labor?

2007-02-20 04:23:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Economics

Serious explenation please

2007-02-20 04:18:59 · 6 answers · asked by Dosage 3 in Psychology

2007-02-20 04:14:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Economics

My psychologist told me to think about this question but I haven't found any answer as yet. Can you help me, please?

2007-02-20 04:13:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

After it is made where does it go. How is it generated and concerntrated into profits.

2007-02-20 04:09:44 · 1 answers · asked by god0fgod 5 in Economics

this is from standerd chartered bank

2007-02-20 04:08:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Economics