Here's the backstory, we met in church when she was 15, and I was 17.
We were somewhat involved and eventually got a little serious over the next year.
I left for college when I was 18. It was then that her dad (who's currently in prison), raped her and hospitalized her younger sister.
I found this out when I came back during the summer, shortly afterwards we broke up and I moved to Maine, leaving her in Cali.
This was 2 years ago, I now have a new girlfriend and all, but I randomly found my first gf on facebook just yesterday. I can see now that she is clearly NOT doing well, and I can't help my concern.
My question is, should I do anything to show my support?
Or should I let go and try to forget her (due to the fact that she has obvious emotional issues)? If so, anyone have any advice on how to do so?
Either way I think I need to face this problem now and get it out of my system. I mean she was my first gf and it wasn't your typical break up.
Thanks,
James
2007-02-09
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