What are the things women envy about men?
Here's an example a woman wrote on this site for another question:
I don't know if you would call it envy, but you have to admit they got it a lot easier. They don't have a period, don't give birth, don't have mood swings, the world and our culture revolves around their wants and wishes, and even sex is designed more for them than it is for women.
I know of course it isn't easy controlling your lower extremities when you are a guy, but other than that I think it's pretty unfair what women have to put up with. Everywhere you look there are billboards, commercials, and media that all appeal to men's fanticies, as if we don't even exist unless that is our purpose.
I have yet to see a commercial where a guy walks into the house, gives his wife a huge kiss and starts playing with his baby (that would be a fantacy of mine), but we as women just deal with it everyday. It really is demeaning, but what can you do? I would give anything to leave my 2 kids with someone for 8 hours a day to go out and socialize with other adults and get paid for it, go home and have dinner waiting for me, and spend the rest of the night relaxing and doing whatever I want.
On the topic of sex, men can do their thing wether their partner is in the mood or not, then finish whenever they want. Women on the other hand can't really do anything if the man is not in the mood and her resolving pleasure is completely optional. What kind of cruel joke is that?
I don't envy men, but I sure do appreciate it when they look beyond themselves for a moment and give credit where credit is due.
2007-01-31
05:38:25
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