My sister doesn't understand, am I being paranoid?

Question

Back in 2000, I had to drive from Illinois to Texas because my mother was moving back there. I was driving a small car and she was driving a 14ft. U-haul truck. Normally, it takes 24 hrs. non stop. But with the truck the fastest she could go was 45 mph. We, fortunately, had walkie-talkies so we were always in communication (she didn't have a cell phone). My mother is impatient and persistent so she insisted that we travel straight through. I've never taken the trip B4, so I didn't know what to expect. It was early March, so the weather was cold to give u an idea and I was on NoDoz. 40 hrs. later and on only 1hr sleep in those 40 hrs, I was shot. Somewhere in Louisiana, she took a wrong exit and cars and semi trucks were whizzing by and it took it's toll on my nerves. By the time we got home I was sick to my stomach, swaying and exhausted. Now, I can't drive on expressways w/o getting very nervous. Am I being paranoid? I feel like I was traumatized by that trip.

Answer 1

After 40 hours without sleep your reaction to the problem was hugely exaggerated. Unfortunately you now remember those emotions without remembering that you were basically insane at the time (you remember that in a rational sense but not emotionally). I don't think you need to see a mental health professional over this, just do your best to remind yourself that your paranoia is irrational and take things step by step. After you've built enough non-panic memories of driving on the freeway, you will eventually get over this complex you've developed. Try putting on some very familiar music or a book on tape or something, to keep you slightly distracted (but not TOO distracted)!

Answer 2

Your first experience of traveling such a long distance in a short time. I felt that way also, my first time. You will get over this, next time just drive 8 hours or so then sleep at night, it will help greatly. Your mother shouldn't of told you to drive straight thru, this is dangerous.

Answer 3

No friend....you're not being paranoid. If you are nervous about expressways then you are doing everybody a favour by staying off them.

Don't let your sister bully you and make you feel inadequate. I'll bet there are things you will do that she won't.
Driving is her trade...it isn't yours.
Stand up and tell her this.

Answer 4

I don't think you are paranoid, most likely traumatized. Maybe you are experiencing Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. YOu should contact a mental health professional who can help you. Best of luck to you.