.....that overall, women are at least somewhat worse at communication (within romantic relationships) than men. I can see the eyes bugging out and the shoulders tensing up as you ladies type your responses, but hear me out. Of course, there are exceptions to this generality I've put forth, but too often, women do the equivalent of asking their man to bring a knife to a gunfight, when they are discussing the relationship/duties/money. Usually, the guy will be trying to be logical, and see where the reasonable responsibility lies. Whereas the woman, she's operating on a different set of values and, more importantly, standards. She's keeping score, but is less likely to factor in facts that the man brings up that might change that score. She wants the guy to read her mind. Bottom line, she expects her man to see things the way she does, when she knows he can't; whereas the man expects the woman to see things the way he does, because he knows she can, but won't at that time.
2007-01-11
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