By socialising I mean going to clubs, pubs and bars. I'm not some crazy loner, I have loads of friends, and I love spending time with them, and I'm always happy and relaxed around my mates, but for some reason I can't stand going out at night. After every night out I come home feeling really bad about myself like I'm a total f*cking loser, and wishing I hadn't wasted my time. I don't go out trying to get laid so it isn't rejection that bothers me because that never happens. Pubs and bars are okay-ish, but it's clubs that really bother me, the music is always sh*t, and I always leave with no self-esteem whatsoever. I've spoken to my friends about it and they always look at me like I'm insane and can't believe I don't enjoy going out partying. It doesn't help that I'm both IRISH and a STUDENT, which makes not going out almost impossible. What do you think, does anyone else feel the same as me?
2007-01-11
12:04:07
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