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Lately my life has been very bad...Friends, School, and especially family...I just don't know what the point of living is anymore..Please help me out..

2007-01-11 12:17:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science Psychology

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Dear Daddy's Little Princess,
Did you know that you were created as a blessing? Just you being here makes the world a better place and if you're gone you'll leave an empty space that no one else can ever fill. I've heard it said that suicide cannot be justified if just ONE person cares about you. Well, I care about you, so you shouldn't do it!
As for a point of living, a REAL reason to live, I can help with that.
Find a Bible and look up Luke, chapter 23, verses 39-43, the story of the 3 crosses. One criminal looked at Jesus and made fun of him, "If you can do all these miracles, save yourself and us." But the other criminal rebuked him saying "Don't you fear God? You and me, we deserve this for we are criminals but this man never did anything wrong in his life." And he said to Jesus "Lord, remember me, when you go up into Heaven." And Jesus said to him, "today, you will be with me in Heaven." So, princess, will you do the same for me? Just say this little prayer "Lord, I ask you to remember me, Amen" Now, having done that, you are guaranteed eternal life and if you want a point in life, then share this with your siblings, your parents, your friends, etc. and lead them in a similar prayer, AND you will have a rich and joyous life and blessings that you cannot count! God Bless you, princess! I care about you. God cares about you. Millions of Angels care about you. I'm just a stranger, without anything to gain, but I sat down at my computer this evening and reached out to someone in need and God saved a princess! How can it get better that that? :-))

2007-01-11 12:40:48 · answer #1 · answered by gabriel3791 3 · 0 0

Cheer up life only gets better! I know all about Depression, because I have a few different diagnosis. You don't want to get caught up on meds if they aren't needed! There are plenty of activities that you can do. Try going to a mall and just hanging out, go for a hike,or walk, take time to interact with siblings if you have any, Volunteer at a local agency,Join afterschool activities. Friends will come and go, school is something you need to devote your time to! NEVER GIVE UP!!! There will always be some type of obstacle to overcome, but that is life.We were birthed for a reason, and nobody knows what they have to go through until they get to it! Things will get better if you keep your head up!

2007-01-11 20:30:51 · answer #2 · answered by ♥xvioletx1882♥ 4 · 0 0

Suicide is never the awnser. If u want ur life to get better make some good changes. Talk about whats bothering. Trust me you don't have it as bad as u think. I have experience with a bad life, but if u want to be a strong person, you will feel much better if you get through, don't wait for others to change your life for you, if your family life isn't great, tell them... Make your own solutions. Suicide is a waste, and even though it may not seem like it, everybody will be devastated. In my religion every one has a purpose. "God don't make no junk!"

2007-01-11 20:29:24 · answer #3 · answered by Kendra :D 4 · 0 0

You have to suffer pain in order for your soul to grow. We all suffer pain one time or another. Some pain and sorrow is more intense but we all go through it.
Many of us have lost friends, love ones, or been treated badly, or lived in proverty or had someone you care about die. No one can say they have never had any of these happen in there lives. How does it go from here?
It is all how you handle it. Only you can change what you dont like in life or you can learn to move on. We cant ever let the small things get us down.
And if you think you problems are not small, what about those in worse shape in this world?
Like those with AIDs, starving kids in Africa, poverty in Mexico, or those that lose both their parents to cancer or other ailment. We all have suffered and most of us try to fix what it wrong and deal with who we lose.

I came from poverty, abuse, alcoholic father, drugs, and low self-esteem. I hated my life and myself. There was many times I wanted to die but thanks GOD I did not do it. Everything that was wrong always got better. And my life totally turned around and my feelings about myself. I wanted to change. Once I decided to change things around me started changing. The sun looked more yellow and felt good, people treated me better, school got better, my life was on the right course. I knew it. I went to college after graduating high school some how. I loved college and it is something all kids should look forward to. It is the best time. Anyone can go and financial aid is available. My teens year were real rough but my college year were a blast. I met my future husband and had to great kids. My kids are grown now and make me proud every day.

My Army son is an officer who just came home from Iraq. He saved many lifes there and got a Medal for it. If I was not alive and I did not give birth to him, those lives may have been lost. God had a plan for me and he has a plan for you. You just have to find it. You can never give up.

My life of poverty was a thing of the past. I made a great life and have really enjoyed every minute. I would have changed NOTHING. Yes, that is true, NOTHING. WHY? Why did I have to suffer when I was younger, because it made me STRONGER, it made me the person I am today.

I now mentor teens. I try to give them hope. I work with teens who need to hear that they can change all the bad that is around them. It takes COURAGE to live. Please talk to someone and Never Ever give up. I promise it will get better.

2007-01-11 20:47:11 · answer #4 · answered by Nevada Pokerqueen 6 · 0 0

your life is worth saving get that out of your head everyone has problems even probuly worst anyways i to felt that way u feel like everyone doesnt understand u but they do there love for u is strong enough to break that thinking dont lose hope if there a way to turn everything around turn the negative to a possitive and open your hurt for options and more happiness u can watch funny movies or george lopez youll feel better that way also make a 360 u turn towards the possitive

2007-01-11 20:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by dvcgurl 7 · 0 0

There must be something you like to do....pursue that. Volunteer at your local volunteer bureau.....there are all sorts of things you might enjoy and you'll get a really good feeling when you help others.
If you're in school, tell your counsellor.
Good luck.

2007-01-11 20:23:27 · answer #6 · answered by SueB 3 · 0 0

Please find someone to talk too. My ex husband commited suicide last year and the many people who loved him and would have been there for him, are now in a state of deep sadness with feelings of guilt and regret for not stepping in even though we didnt know there was a problem. Let someone in PLEASE. IM or email me if you want. I will be there for you.

2007-01-11 20:40:11 · answer #7 · answered by Kujo 3 · 0 0

Call the HopeLine....its an anti depression/suicide hotline and im pretty sure its free. You can talk to people and tell them all your problems and they listen! Its so medicinal to get it all out!

2007-01-11 20:32:47 · answer #8 · answered by Lauren 2 · 0 0

Don't you know everyone has ups and downs even the richest and healthest ones. Don't let the downs take over you!

2007-01-11 20:28:33 · answer #9 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0 0

thats what we call life... make a good living out of nothing... but if you waste it by not tasting it... you need a slice of cake and get a bite of it... its great...and better to share it with someone... get what i mean?

2007-01-11 21:30:31 · answer #10 · answered by eloi 2 · 0 0

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