i often think there is something wrong with me....
i have problems..i get paranoid about the smallest things, i blow up fast..when people want to talk to me i shut them out, i don't like to talk to people because i am always afraid they will make fun of me or tell other people. i worry waaay too much..sometimes i cry for no reason, like the smallest thing would happen and id cry..and i have no sense of self worth, i often think that people only befriend me because tehy feel sorry for me not because they actually like me, i admit i do have problems, but how do i get help? once i almost had an anxiety attack, i panicked and overreacted. people tell me i should love myself more adn that i have trust issues...please, can someone help?
2007-01-11 12:00:33 · 5 answers · asked by roxygirl 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
no i wasn't verbally abused as a child....i live in an awesome family who loves me...it all started in highschool
2007-01-11 12:15:32 · update #1
I'm sorry your down-hearted. These might be some signs of depression. Depression can happen to anyone. So, it's nothing that you did.
Talk to your doctor about it.
2007-01-11 12:39:36 · answer #1 · answered by dearreal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how was ur socially life when u were a kid?
if u didnt have friends, or if they used to make fun of u,this can be afffetcs of childhood
most of all i think u need to stop THINKINg, ;
1-RELAX
2-get some self confidence
3-should NOT give a **** about people say-people talk all the time weather u r right or wrong
4-enough to be satisfied of what u r-when it happens this will be reflected to other people
5-try to improve ur social relations u cant live alone and having friends is very important
6-talk with some1 close to u when u get mad or with a shrink
7-START FROM THE BEGINING, CHEER UP, FORGET ABOUT BAD EXPERIENCES,WE ALL HAVE ONES BELIEVE ME
goodluck (kisses)
2007-01-11 12:35:00 · answer #2 · answered by B for bernadetta 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have this feeling a lot and it's very normal for people to develop during middle or high school because of all the social cliques and experiences you have with them. However, most people don't react as strongly as you do and you might wanna consult your school counselor if you still go to school or a physician.
2007-01-11 12:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok since im very good with giving advice heres mine:
1st- Talk to people because if they insult them just shut it out i dont really care for other people's opinions of me
2cd ya i know your not really paranoid your probally a really nice person
3rd go ahead and get to know someone in a relationship its kinda fun
P.S.- e-mail me about the whole started in highschoool thing ill help
2007-01-12 12:28:56 · answer #4 · answered by Zarrock 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Were you verbally abused or teased as a child? You sound somewhat insecure to me. Please, whatever you do, get some kind of help. Get whatever counseling or therapy you can afford. Talk to a trusted minister. Join a support group. Reach out to someone............and God bless!
2007-01-11 12:08:03 · answer #5 · answered by Gee Wye 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋