At the end of my middle school career, I had a crush on a boy a few years older than me. . . so I found out what kind of girl he liked and started acting like that. About a year later we started dating, and a year after that we broke up. Now I have a problem: I can't go back to not acting . . . I don't know if I managed to change my personality, but I don't feel like that's what happened . . . I think it's because I'm so used to thinking about what I say and do before I do it and then choosing the "right" manner in which to do it . . . but I want to stop! What do you think before you do or say something? What kind of picture, so to speak, do you have in your head of what kind of person you are? Do you have any suggestions for how I can act more like myself?
I know this sounds really dumb, but I've been trying to snap out of the "act" for some time now, and I just can't . . .
2007-01-03
09:49:49
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