Most TV shows - especially soaps - portray men as eager to be around and 'in-there' when their pregnant wife gives birth. But I think this is largely down to the vested feminine pressures of social PC - "political correctness" - and that most men would rather not.
Frankly, I also suspect that many women deeply resent being the ones who have to give birth - (which, let's face it, is a hugely ugly as well as a very painful process) - and feel that men should share in their suffering as much as possible... (something of a "Dog-in-the-Manger" syndrome masquerading as "caring.")
Birth is natural, true - but then, so is crapping. And I wonder - if women were the only ones who needed to go to the toilet... would they insist on men being there along with them - just to endure the pain, the pong and the poo too...?
2006-10-31
20:44:54
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